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well..for me porn is acceptable.

moderatly - i wouldn't tolerate someone who's addicted to it. i think most will agree. some are just completely against it.

i say: at least he's watching video's and not having sex with other women. it's not interactive. so for me it's not cheating and im not uncomfy with it.

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Am breaking up (nearly ) with my partner when i found out about his porn habit .

what do u think is acceptable in a relationship ? am hurting so much abot it right now (:

ty in advance

Tracey

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Wow, I truly didn't even know this was an issue to some people. In today's day and age, pornography is a really common thing and I don't think any woman should take it as an insult.

 

Perhaps this is taking it to the extremes, but would you rather him masturbate to pictures/videos of porn stars on the internet? Or perhaps you'd prefer him doing it to a really attractive co-worker alone in the bathroom?

 

I don't mean to lead your head down any paths, but taking all things into consideration, internet pornography is really pebbles compared to what a lot of men have horrible reputations for.

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Some people are okay with it, others aren't. For some, it depends on the type of porn. For instance, if it's something portraying violence against women (I'm not talking spanking), that would be a problem for me. It doesn't really matter what other people think...it's what you're comfortable with that's important.

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I am totally insecure i know , but its really hard when u have no self worth in yourself like i do .

I felt meeting my now bf was an ego boost , but i now see it as him looking for security in an older women .

If he wants teens like his internet habit " he should pursue that & not hurt my family"

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I am totally insecure i know , but its really hard when u have no self worth in yourself like i do .

I felt meeting my now bf was an ego boost , but i now see it as him looking for security in an older women .

If he wants teens like his internet habit " he should pursue that & not hurt my family"

 

 

It's not insecure to have a problem with your partner viewing porn. Just because some people are okay with, doesn't mean that you have to be. ALOT of people aren't comfortable with it. From your comments, it sounds like there are other things in the relationship you might be having doubts about(?)

 

Are you concerned that he may be using you because you're more established financially than he is? Is it just the porn that makes you feel this way, or are there other things?

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