GizMo567 Posted July 18, 2008 Share Posted July 18, 2008 Im stressed as i see another relationship fall. But this was different, a lot different. She just wasnt strong enough to hold the two of us together. I guess i relied on her too much. Arg, I am in the same position that i have been in. Horrible! Arg - this is going to sound like a total vent post and im sorry but when i someone tells me she has nothing left to give at 3 months, something is seriously wrong!!ARG! I need help! Link to comment
Clabs Posted July 18, 2008 Share Posted July 18, 2008 Hey Giz Sorry you are stressed fella and sorry about what has happened fella. Vent away - that is what this place is here for so don't be sorry. You have given so much good and positive advice to so many people on here so there ain't no harm in taking something back! You say that she wasn't strong enough to hold you together and do you think that maybe you got together too soon and put too much presssure on her? I think that can often be the case. I think for now - you know the drill - take some time out for yourself, you know. It sucks but hope you start to feel a bit more positive soon. Calm down though whatever you do - this won't kill you! Mark Link to comment
GizMo567 Posted July 18, 2008 Author Share Posted July 18, 2008 Err...Very true Clabs..Maybe i did put too much pressure on her..*sigh* Hopefully the pain will let up once again..I am just frustrated seeing as if she just flat out gave up on us..Blah! Link to comment
starlight40 Posted July 18, 2008 Share Posted July 18, 2008 Here 4 you Giz, Mark is right youve helped so many people on here me included so you vent away, im here to listen. I know its frustrating but sometimes there are silver linings in black clouds you just cant see them. Maybe this just wasnt meant to be to make way for something wonderful....you certainly deserve it, try and be positive ok xx hugs Link to comment
GizMo567 Posted July 18, 2008 Author Share Posted July 18, 2008 I think what is so interesting is that after our first real test as a couple, she just couldn't handle the situation and quit. That is truly what is bothering me the most. She walked away without trying. She just have up without a fight. ~Thank you star and clabs. Link to comment
nothanks Posted July 19, 2008 Share Posted July 19, 2008 It is so hard when you see someone give up that easy. Totally. I guess what it says is that her heart wasn't in it, or that she is not mature enough to handle things that are difficult. Some people just run from anything that makes them feel bad. Link to comment
nothanks Posted July 19, 2008 Share Posted July 19, 2008 Someone pointed this out to me once, after a similar experience: "What if you had stayed with this person, and built a life, and then one day something bad happened- like one of you got sick or injured, or had a child with a medical problem, whatever. What if THAT was when you found out they were weak, instead of now? You want a life with someone strong." Link to comment
nothanks Posted July 19, 2008 Share Posted July 19, 2008 It is so hard when you see someone give up that easy. Totally. I guess what it says is that her heart wasn't in it, or that she is not mature enough to handle things that are difficult. Some people just run from anything that makes them feel bad. Link to comment
GizMo567 Posted July 21, 2008 Author Share Posted July 21, 2008 It is so true thanks..Unfortunately, i just found a new way to get hurt..I guess with time it will get better..Fortunately i am young but i guess i am asking for too much when i ask for a girl that will treat me right and wont hurt me in the end..BLAH! Link to comment
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