allypally Posted July 18, 2008 Share Posted July 18, 2008 Hi, Having read some the marriage/long-term relationship posts of which one guy describes his wife having an emotional affair with another man and how her libido has rocketed. When I was helping my bf move some stuff up north last weekend I was drying my hair in his spare room. I noticed some cards on his desk. One of the St Val's cards was from me. There was a Christmas card that hadn't been written in with teddy bears on it, an easter card from his mother and a St Val's card with a cute dog on the front with "Love you" and on the inside "X?X". I have no idea whether it was an old one to him or one intended for me that he didn't give me. I got another one from him though. Also earlier in the year he was going through some car paperwork when I was spending the weekend up north with him and amongst the paperwork I noticed a very smart St Val's card. This upset me but I didn't say anything about it. I questioned him about it the next day and he said it was from his mother. So who was the other one from that was lying on his desk along with mine and his mother's card and a couple of other cards??? Should I be worried?? Has anyone else had similar experiences? Is there someone else in the background I am not aware of? Maybe I am reading into this too much. Surely if he didn't want me to see those cards (excluding mine) he wouldn't have left them out in such an obvious place? All of the things he says indicate he is serious about us, that he is moving into digs to be near me. I am planning on emmigrating to Canada and this hasn't put him off. Has he secretly got his options open?? We are spending lots of time together, he is always telling me how much he loves me, he seems to desire me physically even though i am curvaceous rather than lithe. We have started running together, doing stuff socially together. He is very open about his financial situation and shares important info with me. He texts me and calls me almost daily. I guess the only thing with our sex life is that he seems not to 'make love' to me, but rather goes at it with animal instinct. Am I worrying about nothing? Advice please! Link to comment
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