roseflowers88 Posted July 18, 2008 Share Posted July 18, 2008 Ok here goes. A month and a half ago i met this guy at work. We spent some time together at work and he asked me if i wanted to hang out some time. I told him i would. Well i found out that he moved here from new york to get a fresh start. He has been in jail twice, and had trouble with drugs and drinking. I was able to look over all that, because i saw that he was seriously trying to make a change in his life. Well one night when i was at his place we kinda took it to the next level. I didnt hear anything from him for a couple days, and he actually stood me up on a date that he had set. I then got a text message saying that we should not be messing around like that, and just be friends and chill. I was upset, but was willing to try to remain friends. Well he called me up and asked me to go on a trip with him. I did so. He started wanting to cuddle and other things. Well because of what he did the first time i refused to let him do anything. The next night i went to his house and he tried to pursue something again. This time i told him i was confused by what he wanted, and didnt want to get hurt. He told me he could understand that. I then went on and told him i was confused because of the first time, and he told me that we shouldnt be messing around, but he has a high sex drive. This pissed me off, and i left. Well he saw me at work, and told me that he would like to talk to me. So he took me to his house, and things seemed to be going great, and then after dinner we went outside and he told me that he was giving his notice at work and moving back to NY. I was quite upset. His friends proceeded to tell me that he only wanted friendship with me, but the one likes me so i dont know how much of what they say is true. Well the guy that i have been seeing told me yesterday that he was going to stay a couple months so he could transfer through out company up to new york. I know i should probably just forget him, but ive fallen in love with him. I know we havent known each other awhile but we see each other on a daily basis, and it is killing me to think of him moving away. I just dont know what to do. Link to comment
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