advice24 Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Hello everyone, Just wanted some advice, since I've been mulling this over in my head for a couple weeks. Could really use different input. So my girlfriend and I are happily together over the past year and a half. She currently is on a study abroad trip for 6 weeks over seas. This girl is very idealistic, change the world type. She has little to no access for telephones/internet/email except every few days. So I basically don't hear from her for most of the week. This six week deal is not what I'm worried about, but it got me thinking about a conversation we may need to have. She wants to travel abroad once again this January for 3 months into an even more desolate area where on the website it stated that phones/internet was "non-existent". This means basically a whole 3 months of no talking or connection. I think I could possibly muster enough courage for this one if there is a pay off, i.e she is going to settle down on the traveling and/or we can agree on a place to live nearby each other at least. Once that trip is over she wants to go to graduate school. Now she has been talking of the East coast (I live on the west), but also has brought up California as an option (where I'm from). Once she gets back we will have a long conversation and if she isn't willing to agree on an end point where we both can finally be together, should I dump her? Keep in mind we are terribly in love, but if she puts her career ahead of the relationship should I pull back? Thank you! Link to comment
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