walkingonwater Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 Hey everyone, it's been a frikkin rough couple of weeks since my ex (of 4.5 years) broke up with me. We were both each other's first in everything. I'v had some good time to reflect on things, and I'v come to realize that she might have made the right choice for me, but emotionaly i am still struggling with it, constantly wanting to call her, talk to her and tell her about my day , dreaming about her... Throughout alot of our relationship, it would feel like we are just friends (with benefits), although best friends. We were both young and inexperienced and I think if we did have experience we would have recognized this earlier. Anyways, by this point everything has gotten all messy. We share alot of the same friends (especialy her best female friend who is also my best friends girlfriend, as in we always did the 2 couple thing everywhere we went), she takes piano lessons from my mom, she has her insurance under my name...etc. Now the question is, asuming i can get over her, how do we deal with the friends thing? I dont mind being her friend eventualy, but if she were to bring her new boyfriend out or something to hang out with us, it would, well, it wouldnt be possible. She has stated that she's not looking for a relationship but these things happen. Anyways, I'v called 30 days NC, and I want to have this stuff figured out by then. Thanks Link to comment
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