spion_kop Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 My ex has called me several times during the past couple of weeks. Over the weekend she called me about 14 times in the span of two hours. She texted me asking to pick up the phone but i didnt respond nor answer. Monday night she calls me once again as well but i dont answer once again. We've been broken up for 3 months plus and I've been on NC for the past 2.5 months. I also know that she is still dating her bf but i think things are rocky right now and the reason why she wants to talk to me is for comfort. But then I started to think that she must still be in love with me because the phone calls have been constant but sporadic. I believe that she wants to talk to me to ease the guilt and to make herself feel better about herself, at my expense. I mean why should i be there for her while she is dating the guy that i warned her about while we were together. What do you think guys, am i doing the right thing by sticking to NC? I feel that she needs to be single for a while to mature and to really discover who she really is. Right now I dont want anything to do with her and if i tell her to leave me alone it would give her some sick pleasure because i answered my phone and gave into her (yea she thinks liek that). Link to comment
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