Sick Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 My boyfriend of a year and a half who's broken up with me and come back to me about 4 times broke up with me for the 5th time a couple weeks ago. Then while i was on vacation, him and my best friend hooked up at his house behind my back and made out and did a few other intimate things. He told me about this when i called him while i was still on my trip and we got into a huge fight, then i called my friend and yelled at her and told her to never speak to me and that i hated her for this. Well since then my friend has apologised profusely but i still haven't forgiven her. My ex keeps calling me because he says he wants to stay friends and spend time with me. Last night we had a very long phone conversation discussing everything thats gone on between the three of us and he wants me to forgive my friend and have the three of us hang out once again. But i know its just an excuse for him to see her again. He even told me that he liked her alot and even went as far as to say that he liked her more than he ever liked me. The conversation got even more serious after that and he kept telling me that he never loved me, he never had feelings for me and he didnt want anything to do with me. He said he wanted to be with her. He wanted to date her and forget about me. I started crying and begging him to stay with me and to just try and work things out again, and he told me it would never work. After that i kept him on the phone for another hour or so and the conversation changed to something completely different, and it actually ended quite well. We had a really long in-depth conversation about something different and it took my mind off of my other friend. Then i said i wanted to go to bed and we hung up. While i was sleeping my phone rang again and it was him again. He told me that he couldn't stop thinking of me after our conversation and he said he missed me and cared about me and he was really sorry. Then he said he wanted to work things out again, get back together and do this by taking things slowly. He told me at least 5 times that he loved me and i kept saying, no, you don't really, but he started begging me to start things over and give him another chance. What the hell? So he goes from telling me he likes my friend and doesn't want to ever be with me to telling me he loves me and wants to start over. He sounds confused and i know he isn't using me for anything, so there really are no benefits for him to stay with me. I just don't get it.:sad: Link to comment
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