woahisme13 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 A girl I work with recently broke up woth her BF. She asked me if I wanted to go on a date with her and if I would go out with her last night for her 21st birthday. I agreed to both. We are planning on going out Friday night. I Talked to her on Sunday just to make sure we were still going to go out last night for her birthday. She said yes and I told her I would call her when I got off wokrk so we could meet up. I called her after work and left her a voicemail saying to call me back so we could meet up. She never returned my call. Aropund 9:00 i texted her to see if she still planned on going out. I got no response from her. I ended up going out around 10:00 with one of my buddies. She came into the pub around 10:30 with a bunch of her girlfriends. She was really drunk (Hello 21!). She I be worried that she didn't get back to me, or should I play it off as just wanting to celebrate with her friends? Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 She just broke off with her boyfriend so she was looking for a replacement date..that is why she contacted you...then she started having fun with her friends and all thoughts of you went out the window. Take this as a clear sign that she is a user and not very reliable. I would steer clear of her and not agree to any more "dates" with her. Link to comment
soul_soother Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 decapitate her... find her house, TP it, egg it, torch it... light it with petrol, infest it with small crickets yano some brutal stuff... Cuz she didn't buy you a drink on her birfday...lol jk i wouldn't over throw it. Link to comment
Flux Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 She sounds to me like someone who was looking for a date as a 'rebound' from her ex. As for her meeting her friends, it was her 21st (which is apparently a big thing in America :S) so she went and got drunk. I would say it wasn't looking good, as she probably did just use you as a rebound date. But if she asks you out again, just go for it and see if she doesn't blow you off this time, if she does blow you off a second time, I'd steer clear. Link to comment
allypally Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 Don't waste your time on this one - do you even like this girl?? Nothing lost believe me going on her behaviour, unless you have wanted to be with her for a long time? Move on I say. Link to comment
woahisme13 Posted July 15, 2008 Author Share Posted July 15, 2008 We've known each other for about 2 years. She seems's like a really cool girl. She is also very beautiful. We constantly flirt at work and both have shown interest in eachother, but before now we were both in realtionships. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 don't sweat it. don't bring it up unless you do in a joking way. 'wow, i've never been stood up before.' then laugh. stay away from dating her for a little while. she's freshly 21 and freshly single. she will be partying a lot i bet. Link to comment
Stambler Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I would keep it at a friendship level, at best. First date and she blew you off, it would only get worse..... Link to comment
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