puff.tm.dragon Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 Why can't I find anyone? Link to comment
puff.tm.dragon Posted July 15, 2008 Author Share Posted July 15, 2008 someone that loves me. Link to comment
melrich Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 someone that loves me. Well they don't just hang around on street corners. No one will love you until they get to know you. So first you have to meet them. So I'd ask again, who (or what if you prefer) are you looking for? Link to comment
musicguy Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 because you are trying too hard Link to comment
puff.tm.dragon Posted July 15, 2008 Author Share Posted July 15, 2008 it could be, seems like all the girls i go for aren't interested. two recent rejections by two girls i really fell for. Link to comment
puff.tm.dragon Posted July 15, 2008 Author Share Posted July 15, 2008 Well they don't just hang around on street corners. No one will love you until they get to know you. So first you have to meet them. So I'd ask again, who (or what if you prefer) are you looking for? you're right, i might not be looking in the right places. Link to comment
Luke Skywalker Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 Why don't you go on an online dating site, use that as a header "why cant I find anyone?" and express yourself on your profile about your quest to find your soul-mate and explain in detail on it. Maybe a girl will fancy the way you express yourself and you make a connection with her. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 It's not easy to find someone. I have a hard time meeting people, but that could also be because I don't go out a lot to try and meet people. I agree with the others, go out, get involved with things, take a class. It helps you get out of your shell and meet other people and maybe even a dating potential. My last bf, I met at a Ren Faire related thing, and it was something we shared in common. Link to comment
bostonbruins24 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I think the reasons why someone is single usually are pretty evident and obvious.Are you asking out enough girls?Are your standards too high? Are you getting out there and trying or are you staying locked in a room.Do something different.If one repeats the same patterns and behaviours then one usually winds up with the same result. Link to comment
big greg Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I ask myself the same question... but then realize that there is someone else out there asking the same question and that some day we might end up meeting! Link to comment
StrawberryYogurt Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 What do you have to offer? I'm serious. Link to comment
CrazyKing Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 There is always ONE thing that shows everybody else "I'm not a relationship kind of guy"... Our aim is to find that ONE little thing that keeps us from getting what we want... Link to comment
MD Geist Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I won't find anyone. I have met women in various places and done everything I can possibly do to become a better person, made alot of female friends from it and still nothing. Link to comment
musicguy Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 I won't find anyone. I have met women in various places and done everything I can possibly do to become a better person, made alot of female friends from it and still nothing. you're negative attitude won't find you a woman Link to comment
MD Geist Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 you're negative attitude won't find you a woman Iam not negative nor depressed in fact ive had people tell me I release a positive vibe and actually motivate those around me. Link to comment
desert_rose26 Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 If one repeats the same patterns and behaviours then one usually winds up with the same result. We should print that out and nail it to the wall. Link to comment
MD Geist Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 I think the reasons why someone is single usually are pretty evident and obvious.Are you asking out enough girls?Are your standards too high? Are you getting out there and trying or are you staying locked in a room.Do something different.If one repeats the same patterns and behaviours then one usually winds up with the same result. Hmm my standards aren't that high but theres alot of ghetto women in my area so its tough to find a good out of the bunch. I have tons of women friends but most have boyfriends or husbands. Iam not at home dispite the high gas prices I have done everything diffrent and still get the same results. It was not meant to happen for me. Link to comment
Zepp Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 I know I hate it when guys seem like they're only trying to get to know me so they can get with me. (One-night stand or relationship.) Try not to be desperate. When you first meet/get to know them, focus all your attention on that. But don't let yourself get in the friend zone either. You can do that by, once they know you and you know them, starting to hint/suggest you guys start something. The time-frame for this can be anywhere from a week to more then a month... It's all up to how quickly you want to progress. Link to comment
CrazyKing Posted July 19, 2008 Share Posted July 19, 2008 The main problem is that we guys tend to get too much stuck on particular girls... We spend days and nights dreaming about how our lives are going to be if we'd be together with them & so... What I'm trying to say is that in order to get out of this neverending "heart breaking" and all that stuff, we should just hang out with as much girls as possible, and if we can combine that with "I'm fine with myself being single" and a little confidence which makes all girls willing to hang out with ya, we'll be the winners... Link to comment
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