lizzzy111 Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 so its been officaly two weeks since we have spoken in any way shape or form. I know its whats best because he isnt good for me and i finally was about to get out of a toxic relationship but for some reason i still miss him. He is travelling and i feel like he has forgotten about me. I shouldnt care i ended it the way i needed to and i know it will never work out between us. I looked at his facebook today and i shouldnt have because now i am upset and feel alone. He was contacting from his travels and has stopped but i know its because i never really responded because i didnt want to be sucked back into it all. I know he is not the one for me but how can i just let it all go! sometimes i feel great sometimes i feel sad and right now the sadness has really kicked in. I want to not care about what he is doing! any suggestions? Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 number one, delete him from facebook and don't ever look at it again! facebook and myspace are the worst things in the world while breaking up with someone, in my opinion. agh, i loathe them in that respect. but seriously, you broke up with him, didn't you? you should be happy that he's moving on. i know it's hard and i'm not reprimanding you, but if you feel like you did the right thing, then let him move on. oh and if it's any reassurance, i'm sure that after two weeks he didn't already "forget" about you. he's just trying to have a good time while being away, IMO. Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 number one, delete him from facebook and don't ever look at it again! facebook and myspace are the worst things in the world while breaking up with someone, in my opinion. agh, i loathe them in that respect. but seriously, you broke up with him, didn't you? you should be happy that he's moving on. i know it's hard and i'm not reprimanding you, but if you feel like you did the right thing, then let him move on. oh and if it's any reassurance, i'm sure that after two weeks he didn't already "forget" about you. he's just trying to have a good time while being away, IMO. Totally agree. Very well put. Link to comment
lizzzy111 Posted July 14, 2008 Author Share Posted July 14, 2008 yeah i totally agree as well. i was the one who finally ended things in the end. it was bad... i know i should be happy for him to move on that is the logical thing right...i just feel like its harsh to delete him off facebook. I know that right now i cant be friends with him but i do hope that one day mayeb in a while we can be friends again when we are both fully over it and have moved on. should i give up on this thought? Link to comment
ms.elisemarie Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 I find the whole Facebook and MySpace thing a hard dilemma too. I've thought about deleting my ex but it seems sort of harsh. And if I do want them in my life again, I feel like doing that says the exact opposite. I decided to not delete my ex because honestly it wouldn't be that hard for me to view his profile whether we were friends on the network or not. I just do my best to have control and not look at his page. And part of me doesn't want to delete him and give him any insight that he has that kind of affect on me or that I've even given him that much thought. All these social networking channels are so odd. As of last night, my ex blocked me on iChat, but left me as his friend everywhere else. Go figure. Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 i just feel like its harsh to delete him off facebook. i'm sure he'll understand and get over it. deleting someone isn't that big of a deal. and honestly, wouldn't you rather do that, than get worked up over every comment a girl leaves him, or every new picture he puts up?> Link to comment
lizzzy111 Posted July 14, 2008 Author Share Posted July 14, 2008 i agree but at the same time it does look weak in a way....like i cant handle being his friend on there. i just want to have more self control but something just takes over me and i do it even though i know it i will make me feel like * * * * .... Link to comment
ken_is_changing Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 I'm trying to move on myself, seeing certain images on the computer monitor triggers a rush of feelings, the way she made me feel, the future hope we'd be together etc. We did meet online, yes, but we started seeing each othewrin person, main thing I have to say is try to get rid of the triggers that bring back memories. Link to comment
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