Guys & Sex Noises

[RememberLeah]

Usually I just prefer reading other people's questions and problems, maybe posting up my thoughts on the subject every so often. But I was reading one thread and it made me think of something I'd like some answers to.

 

The thing that does it for me more than anything during sex is hearing my boyfriend make noises, especially when he comes. Do any other girls feel the same way?

 

For me it makes great sex amazing, but guys seem to not like to do it. My ex used to let out a little moan when he would first enter me, which made me go almost immediately, it turned me on so much, and then again when he came. But my current boyfriend is almost totally silent. I've asked him why he doesn't, even after we've just had some particuarly crazy good sex, and he says he feels weird about it, it's the girl that should be making the noise.

 

I find it quite a turn off when there's no noise, like I'm not doing it for him, even though he says I do. He's said that even though he feels like doing it sometimes, he stops himself because he's too embarrassed.

 

Guys, is it some big rule that only the girls should make noise? How do you feel about it?

[a_lifters_life]

Yeah I agree ... the girls usually should be making the noises. But that ISNT to say the guy is silent ... i breathe really heavily usually.

[EQD]

i like it when men make noise. they need to do it more often.

[kaoticbaby]

i LOVE it. unfortunately my boyfriend is a little shy sexually, so he never really lets loose like that. he knows i love when he talks to me and makes noises during sex, so he'll try to say some dirty things that he basically learned right out of a porno movie, so it seems very fake and doesn't do it for me

 

my ex would though, and i loved it! i guess it's the fact that it really shows how much he's enjoying it that makes me enjoy it that much more.

 

you're def not alone

[Clementine orange]

I'm usually the strong silent type. Maybe I should change that. I just don't want to sound like some cheesy porn soundtrack though.

I've actually heard complaints that I don't say much (or make much noise). I got plenty to say before and after, just during....I guess I'm just focusing

[stella777]

it is absolutely a turn on for me as a girl too. I think for a great sex it is important as much as it is important for a girl to moan!

[RememberLeah]

To clarify, I don't mean "Oh yeah, who's daddy's little girl now" or whatever!

 

I would probably crack up laughing if my boyfriend actually tried dirty talk. I just mean some moans, some grunts, some indication you're enjoying it!

[kaoticbaby]

To clarify, I don't mean "Oh yeah, who's daddy's little girl now" or whatever!

 

I would probably crack up laughing if my boyfriend actually tried dirty talk. I just mean some moans, some grunts, some indication you're enjoying it!

 

ahah, yeah i knew what you meant!

i tell my boyfriend i'd love to hear him get into it like that, make some noise, ugh i'd love it.

but he takes that to mean i want him to have a dirty porn-star mouth, which is completely unlike him, and omg.

 

One time (while he was on top, no less) he randomly said, quite monotonously, "Oh...yeah.. ride me up and down..."

 

I just kind of laughed it off...

[crosstownTraffic]

I think it all depends on the guy. Some guys are quiet during sex, and some make a racket.

 

I'm like you , and prefer some noise, esp when they are making approving sounds.. Yes, that is so much a turn on.. My last bf, would make all these little comments, to show he was liking what I was doing, or what was going on..

Yes, that is definitely a turn on!

 

But guys, why do you think you are not allowed to make noise, but the girls can??? Who wrote that rule???

 

I think that alot of porn movies, the sounds the girls are making are equally as cheesy and probably fake as heck! LOL

Maybe that's why the guys want us to make alot of noise, from the porn movies they often watch.

[lana111]

i love it. nothing over the top, but some grunting and or moaning really does it for me.

[a_lifters_life]

I think it all depends on the guy. Some guys are quiet during sex, and some make a racket.

 

I'm like you , and prefer some noise, esp when they are making approving sounds.. Yes, that is so much a turn on.. My last bf, would make all these little comments, to show he was liking what I was doing, or what was going on..

Yes, that is definitely a turn on!

 

But guys, why do you think you are not allowed to make noise, but the girls can??? Who wrote that rule???

 

I think that alot of porn movies, the sounds the girls are making are equally as cheesy and probably fake as heck! LOL

Maybe that's why the guys want us to make alot of noise, from the porn movies they often watch.

 

I believe that is a true statement. I mean loud and I mean loud breathing isnt that good ? or do you want some voice in there too hahahaha

[barbielovesmac]

Oh absoluetly. I get SO turned on when I hear my guy....

It lets me know that he is enjoying himself.

 

Just like guys like to hear us girls, we like to hear the guys.

Guys wanna know it feels good and they know by how we sound. Well, us girls want the same thing!

 

I love the breathing heavy...oh goodness...and the moans when he is about to cum and cumming.....ooooooooh wee!

[gcollier2002]

My ex used to rail me over the fact that I made no noise whatsoever. Our sex was mindblowing, but for whatever reason I just had no inclanation to yell, scream, moan, etc. I guess I wasn't aware that it was a turn on... It could be that I came up in my sexual relationships early enough to where there was an advantage of not making noises and it stuck with me.... LOL

[a_lifters_life]

My ex used to rail me over the fact that I made no noise whatsoever. Our sex was mindblowing, but for whatever reason I just had no inclanation to yell, scream, moan, etc. I guess I wasn't aware that it was a turn on... It could be that I came up in my sexual relationships early enough to where there was an advantage of not making noises and it stuck with me.... LOL

 

I agree man , I wouldn't think it would be a 'turn on' . Haha, guess I'm wrong . Now I know for the next time

[metrogirl]

My recent ex was quiet as a mouse. I couldn't get a sound out of him if I lit his feet on fire! Even while orgasming, not a sound....The very first time I thought he had croaked or something. I used to ask him, why don't you make any sounds? "I don't know" was always the answer.

 

My ex ex always let me know that he was enjoying himself. I knew, the neighbors 4 doors down knew when he was orgasming. He would grunt and growl like a bear.......LOL

[IMAbadman]

(blushing)

 

Well I obviously do the heavy breathing, grunting, groaning and love to give encouragement to my partner. Yeah... I think talking during the “act” is sexy too.

 

Of course then comes that climatic moment when I shake and occasionally make moans and other noises... You know like when you get toe cramps, your cross-eyed and… OK, I'm spent.

[ghost69]

i say stuff sometimes. you can use your imagination. i'm not giving away the ghost secrets.

 

some moaning as well. i'm usually into making the girl make the noises though. but lots of slapping sounds.

[livinginsbi]

I like my guy making noise too and some respectful dirty talk! Nothing makes this lady happier than knowing my guy is into it!

[bijoux27]

I love it when they're vocal.

[hers]

I need my guys to make noises, at least heavy breathing or grunts. If they're quiet, I get REALLY insecure and think they aren't enjoying it and then it's awkward. My current boyfriend is very quite especially when I'm on top and I'm like "Uh, I'm gonna stop if I can't hear you". I've even told some guys to fake the noises if htey had to b/c I can't handle the quiet!

[MattW]

Never had sex, but yanno, I can't see myself... "making noises" during. Why, I don't know. I really haven't seen much porn, but you know when you watch TV shows or non-sex movies, and there are scenes where sex is implied? To me, it seems like when they do that, you always only hear the girl making noise. I can only think of a handful of times I saw a scene like that where you hear a guy doing anything. So, it's kind of burned in my mind that guys typically don't make much noise during. Ah well, guess I'll have to see what happens when my first time comes around, whenever that may be.

[hers]

Never had sex, but yanno, I can't see myself... "making noises" during. Why, I don't know. I really haven't seen much porn, but you know when you watch TV shows or non-sex movies, and there are scenes where sex is implied? To me, it seems like when they do that, you always only hear the girl making noise. I can only think of a handful of times I saw a scene like that where you hear a guy doing anything. So, it's kind of burned in my mind that guys typically don't make much noise during. Ah well, guess I'll have to see what happens when my first time comes around, whenever that may be.

 

Please dont base your potential sexual experiences off of porn. Porn is set to show the woman and exploit the woman for being a sex object, so of course they're only going to focus on her. When you do get to have sex, just be natural. UYou may not be albe to keep the groans in!

[MattW]

Heh, oh, no, I'm not basing anything off of actual "porn"; I've only ever seen a handful of actual full-blown sex movies, and even then, I wasn't that interested in watching them to begin with (not really my thing). Again, I'm talking about sitcoms, or non-sex movies where sex is implied, where it may be off-camera, but you can hear what's going on. Really, I'm not saying that's "correct", just that those things kinda got burned into my mind, but I'll have to wait and see what happens when my time actually comes around.

[Divine_Malice]

I love it too! My boyfriend makes the groans and breaths heavily in my ear and it just sends me over the edge, I hadn't had that with my last guy. I was usually silent to but with my boyfriend I find I can't keeps it in, which makes my guy react even more to it. Sometimes he'll even say my name and even tell me how hott it is or sexy.

 

I think its so hot! I cant help myself. I think boys should do it more often, Makes me want to jump my boyfriend more than I did with my ex. Its hot guys, and if your the guy holding it back just let it go, there is nothing wrong with it at all. Let your partner know that you like what there doing.

I totally understand if your just the silent type but Don't hold it in if you want it! Let it out!!

[EQD]

See men. You all have learned something from this thread. Make a little noise.