nikkers04 Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 My ex and I have become friends we both talk to each other about pretty much everything...Problem is I'm not over him...I thought I was I had moved on but now that we are talking again all the memories have come back and I remember why I loved him. He is currently heart broken over someone else and it hurts me knowing he feels that pain He made the comment the other day about how annoying it is that guys have to make the first move...they have to put there egos out there and hope they don't get rejected. I still have feelings for him but I dont know if I should tell him I'm glad he is back in my life as a friend but i'm greedy I guess and what what we had. I dont want to tell him because i'm afraid it might scare him away. any suggestions Link to comment
BetterKarma Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 How long have you broken up? I would suggest you keep your feelings to yourself for now. You don't want to be the rebound girl. Let him sort out his feeling for her first. Link to comment
nikkers04 Posted July 14, 2008 Author Share Posted July 14, 2008 we broke up in january Link to comment
BetterKarma Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 And when did he start dating his new girl and for how long? Link to comment
HealingHandsWarmHeart Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 Life is short.. if you still have feelings for him ..i say tell him... if he says that he justs wants friendship- is that something you will be ok with? Link to comment
nikkers04 Posted July 14, 2008 Author Share Posted July 14, 2008 And when did he start dating his new girl and for how long? umm he started dating her in april or may and it was never official they just started hanging out and dating. she lives abotu 8 hours away so she was down here visiting family during summer break Link to comment
nikkers04 Posted July 14, 2008 Author Share Posted July 14, 2008 Life is short.. if you still have feelings for him ..i say tell him... if he says that he justs wants friendship- is that something you will be ok with? I'd rather have him as a friend then nothing at all. but i feel if i tell him and thats all he wants in return he won't even want to be friends because he knows that i have feelings for him Link to comment
BetterKarma Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 umm he started dating her in april or may and it was never official they just started hanging out and dating. she lives abotu 8 hours away so she was down here visiting family during summer break Here's my problem with this situation. You really can't be friends with an ex if you still have feelings for them. It's not a real friendship because you're always hoping for something more. And another thing is that I am afraid he is using you for company and a crutch because of this breakup. Either way, it's not really healthy for you. If you really still want to be his friend, I would just be there for him but I wouldn't tell him that you still have feelings for him. It has to come from him but beware of becoming the rebound girl. Link to comment
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