KronicMan Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 Just recently, i kind of cut my friend off. heres a little rundown. im a guy, shes a married woman. we met at work years ago and became good hangout buddies. at first i thought me being a guy would interfere with her marriage. but actually, we all became friends hanging out together, going out, etc. the thing is, my friend calls me non stop, day after day and sometimes would blow me up calling me 3, 4x one after the other. i told her how i felt, and was real nice about it. i said "look when you call me im at work and in meetings, i would appreciate it if you didnt blow me up like that." she got the message. So the blowing up stopped, but constantly day after day she would call me. and we would talk about the same stupid nonsense. she will say "you dont call me anymore, we dont talk" i have been feeling distant, and i dont want to continue this friendship anymore. well last week, we spoke on monday, she called, tues, wed, and thurs. and i didnt pick up. on thursday i had it. and i sent her a text saying she calls me too much, i dont need to speak to any of my friends on a daily basis, and that we both have our own lives outside the friendship. and she did not take it well. i said basically i need to move on. we havent spoken since then. i feel a lil guilty, at the same time relieved, i had been wanting to get this off my chest. shes the type of person where if i said " i dont want to continue this friendship" she would say "WHYY?? WHATS WRONG?? WHAT DID I DO??" Shes pretty hard headed. Thanks for reading. Any advice/thoughts/comments would help. Link to comment
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