micromike Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 Hi this is my first time on here hello everybody! hoping someone can clear some stuff up for me i`m a 28yo guy i`ve been with my fiancee for 4 years just over, when we first met she had moved house because of problems with ex friends so she had nobody but her family when we first met we would spend evey minute together, I met her through her sister who worked at the same place as me, everything was fine we couldnt be separated she would come out with me and my friends everywhere I would go, I proposed to her about 18 months ago and now have been living together for 6 months she has a very strong attachment with her family she still gets her ironing done there she visits there every night after work for 2-3 hours and showers there too sometimes this feels out of the odinary but I`m not sure thats just me, but the biggest problem is that she recently signed up to facebook and has made contact with her friends she left behind, friends she says are good friends but hey are men and this is very worrying for me I`m not used to having her having friends especially men I`ve talked to her about it and she says there really good friends and nothing else but she went out clubbing with her sister and a few friends a couple of weeks ago some of these are men I also went out the same night and saw her she seemed disappointed I was there and said I was spying on her I asked if I could come into the club she was going into but she didn`t want me there she said she would not be able to dance with her male friends if I was there so I stropped off she was going to meet me later that night and never turned up I went home alone. Anyway since I have been a bit naughty and have been loggin her facebook messages and have found out her sister her and 2 of her friends who are guys are going oujt for the day and what disturbs me is that there are always kisses on the messages that she sends them one of them she send I love you on the messages he replies the same but I know nothing would happen there he is definatly not her type, the others get kisses on there messages she says this is normal but to be honest i`m not sure what to think am i over reacting I really need to know I would appreciate any comments on anything i`ve written Thanks for taking the time to read. Mike Link to comment
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