Mixed signals

[misspiggyfire]

Me and the ex have been split up just over 6 weeks ago. I moved 300 miles to be with him but moved back home when we split up and the house we had together he gave up and moved into a houseshare.

 

We have been talking on and off and have established that we still love each other and would like to try again but I am so not sure. I don't know if I can handle being in a long distance relationship only seeing him twice a month, going from living together to see each other every few weeks will be so hard. He is off travelling to Oz at the end of the year for a few months he asked me to go but I can't afford it this yr. I don't think you should be with someone when travelling for a long time as you need to enjoy the whole experience.

 

At the moment I am in limbo do I just go for it and wait for him until he comes back travelling or do I just move on. Any suggestions?

[okay]

Let him go. U'r in different places. U don't want to change U'r lifestyle for him, & he shouldn't have to for U.

Seems like U're pushing him, & he doesn't really want to be w/ U.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

If you really love each other the distance wouldn't stop you from getting together. So big deal that he will be travelling for three months...you can still communicate with each other. So big deal if you are at a distance for a while...if you are trying to re-build something, it is better to take it slow. I have to wonder why you moved back home the minute your relationship fell apart...didn't you have a job when you were living with him? What happened to your job?