ole21 Posted July 13, 2008 Share Posted July 13, 2008 Hey guys so I'm 18 and I have had sex. However it was all with my ex girlfriend so i haven't actually had sex in like 8 months. Well I've been with this great girl for a while and shes a virgin. Tonight we decided to have sex and everything was wonderful up to a certain point. When we were both 'ready' I turned to the nightstand to get the condom and by the time I put it on...I was a tiny tiny bit soft, but not bad. This girl is so so tight (tighter than my ex girlfriend who was also a virgin.) So basically I just couldn't get it in and after a bit I was just soft in the condom. We tried like three times and everytime I would be pretty hard and then I'd go to put the condom on and get soft. This never happened before, so I'm kinda confused. When I was with my ex, i was kinda affraid of not lasting so I'd usually masterbate earlier in the day. I did the same thing today, so I'm wondering if I should just stop doing that or what? In all honesty I've been masterbating about once a day for the past few months, so that could have made a difference, but it's not much more frequent than I did when I was with my ex. I just want to know what may have caused this and what I can do in the future. Also, I hadn't gotten much sleep for a while, so would me being somewhat exhausted play into it? There's a good chance I'll try again tomorrow, so what should I do in advance? Link to comment
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