Hollyj Posted July 12, 2008 Share Posted July 12, 2008 I saw my ex on link removed today and finally came to the realization that there will never be a reconciliation. Background. We broke up mutually last October due to external factors effecting the relationship. We reestablished contact-his doing-in January. I wanted to have a platonic relationship even though feelings still existed. He stated he still loved me and wanted to work towards a relationship, but couldn't do so until he was gainfully employed again. I continued this farce-stupid and trusting as I am-until April where I could not continue contact, as it was just too painful. I told him I thought it best we stay out of contact until things had changed. He stated he had to get the employment situation out of the way and then he could focus on the relationship, well that was two-months ago and I had heard nothing. Last night, a friend I were playing around on link removed-for her benefit- lo and behold who's picture do we see-said he would never go on again b/c it had been a failure in the past. I was absolutely heartbrokenl I feel so betrayed, I just wish he had been honest with me about not returning to the relationship, it would have been so much easier. I know this is for the best as it shows his true character, I also know I deserve someone who's honest and will appreciate for the special and amazing person I am. But for today it doesn't eliminate the pain and betrayal I'm feeling, I feel like I'm at square one. Just needed to vent. Link to comment
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