fluke2000 Posted July 12, 2008 Share Posted July 12, 2008 Hi I have ended a 14 month relationship about two months ago. We were planning to have a child together via IVF as she had some problems and were planning to buy a house together (just giving you some background here). When we got together she had split with her last boyfriend for about 3 months, they had a 2-year relationship. He was suffering from depression and I think it all went down hill, he then recovered but didn’t really want a relationship with her. When we first got together her head was a bit messed up and she continually spoke about their relationship, I did think this was rude but I didn’t say anything because she did seem messed up by him. As time went on and a few arguments about him later I said it was time for her to cut contact from and ‘move on’ if this relationship has any chance. We then split and she went back to him, surprise surprise it didn’t work out as they had the same problems as before. We then got back together and she had the sense not to even mention him, a small amount of time passed and he started to creep back in. I had enough and ended it. My questions for you good people are: How important do you think it is to cut contact from the ex’s and move on? Do you think it is important for a relationship to work? I personally see it as a complete lack of respect for the other person. I have never had this situation before and never want to again. It’s just something I wouldn’t do to a person, I suppose I just show some respect. Thanks Link to comment
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