orchidrose Posted July 12, 2008 Share Posted July 12, 2008 I've gone on a few dates with a guy that I met through an Internet dating site. We actually started talking last winter, but apparently he had recently met someone else, and became involved with her very quickly. We didn't talk again until a few weeks ago, and he quickly suggested actually meeting for the first time. We had great first and second dates - conversation never stopped, and I had a nice time. For the third date, I went over to his place, and we slept together. I feel like this might have been too soon, but at the time, it felt right. I was still kind of unsure about how I felt about him; he's very different from any guy I've ever been interested in, but I did enjoy spending time with him. Since then we've seen each other three or four more times. Each time has been late at night (he's very busy; works as a leasing agent during the day and does theatre at night), he's been drunk a few times, and we usually only manage to hang out on my couch for 10 minutes before we start ripping each other's clothes off. We do share some more romantic kisses, cuddle on the couch, etc., but he hasn't shown me much outright romantic behavior. He's been even busier than usual this week and the frequency of text messages and phone calls has dropped off dramatically. He's apologized a few times and said he's not avoiding me, he's just too busy to check in. I got my first real job this week and he's told me he's going to take me out to a very fancy dinner next week to celebrate, but I haven't talked to him in a few days and am getting frustrated. In the time that we haven't been seeing each other regularly, I really have missed him, and I feel like my romantic affection for him is growing. Any clues on what's going on here? Is it all about the sex, and he's really "not that into me?" Link to comment
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