Looking for a female input: am I desirable looking?

[Delonte4prez]

I get a lot of contradiction from people on my looks I would just like some honest input.

 

If you think I'm drop dead ugly PLEASE DONT HOLD BACK I can take it.

[shikashika]

What's the point of this? you can't tell anything from a picture anyway..

 

Lots of poeple take photos fo themselves froma very flattering angle and sometimes very attractive people can look god-awful in photos..

[dont_know_what_2_say]

I get a lot of contradiction from people on my looks I would just like some honest input.

 

There you go, you just said it you get a lot of contradiction from people, because everyone has different tastes.

someone might find you attractive and then the next girl might not.

[greywolf]

Honestly, you can't tell from a picture. There are the people that look horrible in pictures, and the people that look great in pictures and it has nothing to do with how they look in real life.

[greywolf]

What's the point of this? you can't tell anything from a picture anyway..

 

Lots of poeple take photos fo themselves froma very flattering angle and sometimes very attractive people can look god-awful in photos..

 

Yup. When I take pictures it's always from a certain angle cuz that's the way I look prettiest. heheheh

[pianoguy]

You look okay, I hate buzz cuts. I think you'd look better if you grew your hair a bit more.

[bijoux27]

sure, i would talk to you if you approached me in a bar. i'd say you are a good looking guy.

 

I agree with this.

[Nixee]

Attractiveness is not just physical features, it is such a bigger package.

 

Sure there are those who are just naturally blessed with the Angie Jolie and Brad Pitt genes and have all the molecules in all the right places.... but for everyone else, the varied responses, well... that is quite normal. Some are going to find you attractive, some aren't. To tip the scales in your favor, it takes much more than just your physical presense.... and we cannot tell that from those photographs you've posted. At least I can't. How you carry yourself, how confident you are, how happy you are, your humor, your smile and laugh....

 

 

I will tell you though that I have personally never thought of myself as particularly photogenic. But just last week I was on vacation with a large group of friends and I was having my picture taken constantly by tons of cameras. Because I was having such a wonderful time, my smile was always huge on my face, and the joy inside of me was really shining through in each photo... I think because of this fact, all of my friends kept telling me how incredibly photogenic I am, which dumbfounded me.

 

Know who you are, be who you are, do what you love... and you become more and more attractive.

[Delonte4prez]

Wow! Very well said. What you wrote really made me think.

 

I appreciate everyone's responses. I agree that being attractive is more than looks alone, I'm just wondering how my looks are is all.

 

Thanks guys!

[Ftheworld]

You look so much like one of my co-workers and he has a hot wife if that matters LOL.

[denise_14]

uhm, gain some more weight, grow your hair longer, and put more attitude to your get-up... just try to show your personality more... i hope that helps!

[AnotherBrokenDoll]

Okay your not the guy that would stop me in my tracks and make me just stop and stare. But if you approached me i would happily walk back to my friends and explain that a cute guy spoke to me

[girl friend]

Yup. When I take pictures it's always from a certain angle cuz that's the way I look prettiest. heheheh

 

of course, im sure most people edit their photos and only put the ones of them looking their best on facebook for instance! Have you ever seen a picture on facebook of anyone looking upset? or not their best? forget photos, be yourself.

 

This is about you, not everyone else and their views. Tell me why this topic came up? what u doubt about yourself? what you think? are you happy in yourself?

[wtm78]

confidence is the key to attractions...

[The Misfit]

Since you're looking to get rated, you should post your pic on HOTorNOT. And then wait until you get rated at least a couple of hundred of times. The more you rate people at HOTorNOT, the more you get rated. And be sure to rate people of all ages and both genders. Doing all of that will ensure that you get more ratings. I know because earlier this year I threw caution to the wind and submitted my photo. I was pleasantly surprised by my rating. I was rated an 8, but truth be told, an 8 rating in HOTorNOT's virtual world is more like a 6.5 in the real world, in my opinion. But I could be wrong?

[i_love_chocolate]

Since you're looking to get rated, you should post your pic on HOTorNOT. And then wait until you get rated at least a couple of hundred of times. The more you rate people at HOTorNOT, the more you get rated. And be sure to rate people of all ages and both genders. Doing all of that will ensure that you get more ratings. I know because earlier this year I threw caution to the wind and submitted my photo. I was pleasantly surprised by my rating. I was rated an 8, but truth be told, an 8 rating in HOTorNOT's virtual world is more like a 6.5 in the real world, in my opinion. But I could be wrong?

 

I agree. People here are nice and they're not going to tell you their honest opinion if they think that you're not good looking.

 

Now, my opinion? I don't think you're bad looking but I think you need to start hitting the gym. You need to gain lots of weight and grow your hair. As a side note, but people have already told you that, you don't have to be a 10 to get a hot girlfriend. FYI, I posted my picture on hotornot and got a rating of 3. My ex-gf got a rating of 9.5 on hotornot! The girls I have dated after my ex? They are also 9.5 materials and I am by far not a guy who girls would die over because of my "looks". The only reason I got girls was my personality, that's it. Of course looks are important but as long as you're okay looking that's all that matters.

 

Like I said, you could use some muscle mass and hair.

[ghost69]

you will be more desirable if you are not worried about your appearance. women can sense that.

[emmie_g]

I think ya look cute but like people are saying people look different in real life.

Im told by many people that i look awful in pictures lol!

[Catdancer]

You're ok. I probably wouldnt go out with you, tho.

[-Ophelia-]

I think you look cute. You have nice blue eyes (at least I think they're blue) and a sweet smile Don't underestimate the fact that you're a tall guy. Tall guys always get attention. I agree with other people, maybe you can grow your hair just a little. And those freckles or whatever they're called always make a person look more attractive in my opinion.

 

You're young, as you grow older, you'll be experimenting with your looks, your style will be changing from time to time. Do things that make you feel good about yourself... I do that whenever I need a boost and it makes me feel confident about myself. Things like this post, working out or getting a new outfit. Recently, I've been doing yoga and I really don't know why it's making me feel prettier, and sexier.

[-Ophelia-]

I think ya look cute but like people are saying people look different in real life.

Im told by many people that i look awful in pictures lol!

 

I really liked the pic you have there, it's a very pretty pic.

[solacean]

Since you're looking to get rated, you should post your pic on HOTorNOT. And then wait until you get rated at least a couple of hundred of times. The more you rate people at HOTorNOT, the more you get rated. And be sure to rate people of all ages and both genders. Doing all of that will ensure that you get more ratings. I know because earlier this year I threw caution to the wind and submitted my photo. I was pleasantly surprised by my rating. I was rated an 8, but truth be told, an 8 rating in HOTorNOT's virtual world is more like a 6.5 in the real world, in my opinion. But I could be wrong?

 

To the original poster: yes, HoN will very likely get you the honest rating you were hoping for in this thread. But first be absolutely certain that you are prepared for a rating you aren't expecting, in either direction. For some, like "Misfit" above, it may in fact turn out to be a pleasant surprise. For myself, on the other hand, I posted two carefully selected pictures (the best I could get of myself) to HoN, expecting to get about a 5 or so, and hoping for maybe slightly better than that. Both of mine ended up with a rating of 2.8, which was a colder splash of water in my face than I was ready for.

 

But at least I finally knew the truth afterwards, the truth I'd never been able to get from any woman in person. And once I'd accepted it, I was finally able to see the strange range of reactions I've gotten from women all of my life for what they were, and at last understood how I got to this place I'm at. So it can be helpful in the long run.

[jengh]

well, you're definitely not ugly.

 

to me, you look like your typical, run of the mill guy. If you approached me in a bar, I'd talk to you.

 

You don't seem to really have much PERSONAL style, and by this I mean...something that makes you stand out a bit more.

[Gratsy]

What is it about your personality that gets those kind of girls?

[Gratsy]

For me it could go either way depending on your personality. I agree with Cairo. You're definetly not ugly. If you had a bad personality you could be that way to me, and if you had a good one, you could become SUPER hot in my eyes. Some guys are blatantly, undeniably hot even if they have a bad personality, but who cares.