floridagirlal Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Hello everyone. I am recently divorced (April) but I have realized that I am not emotionally divorced. And the problem is that I don't know how to proceed with the emotional divorce. I realized all of this on July 4th when everyone is supposed to cook out and have plans to watch fireworks, etc. I didn't have plans and I didn't have children to blame it on. I was alone. My XH called me and was nice enough to invite me to a friends home and I accepted. There were a few married couples there and a few of our single friends too. In particular, there was a woman there that he had known in high school but I didn't know her. She is going through a divorce and knew that we were recently divorced. Now, the problem that I have is that this woman has started calling my XH. I know what you're thinking...we are divorced and I should have nothing to say. I agree with you in my head, but my heart can't understand that. How do I take that next step and accept that he will have woman calling him and will even go out with them?? Link to comment
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