I overheard this girl saying that she likes guys with a -"silly and romantic streak"

[ConfusedDater]

so can someone tell me what she means? Thanks

[Snoopy24]

It's pretty self explanatory, no?

 

She wants someone that is romantic, but not so serious all the time.

[ConfusedDater]

It's pretty self explanatory, no?

 

She wants someone that is romantic, but not so serious all the time.

 

 

But i need things broken down because I'm not good in this dating lingo stuff.

 

 

I thought it was more to it.

[BellaDonna]

Is this a person you are trying to date, or just someone you overheard?

[ConfusedDater]

Is this a person you are trying to date, or just someone you overheard?

 

some female at my job as i was walking pass.

[ghost69]

you analyze everything waaaay too much man.

[Whiskers]

My boyfriend came home with a cool pair of Giraffe slippers for me, just because they were there in the supermarket when he went to pick up milk and bread...that's silly...a couple of days later he came home with a bunch of flowers because I'd been feeling off...

Small gestures...silly and the romantic. No prompting. Not too much of an expense.

XXXX

[BetterKarma]

It means exactly as she said. Someone who's not always serious and has a fun side AND someone who is romantic sometimes.

 

I think you're trying to figure out a formula for dating and there isn't one. Just go out there and date. Stop thinking about it so much.

[BellaDonna]

I have read a lot of your posts and it seems that many typical social interactions seem quite confusing to you.

 

I was just wondering, do you ever feel like your social interactions are forced, scripted, mechanical and unnatural?

 

Do you have the same feelings of needing to analyze things when it comes to your male friends, family, & coworkers, or is it just with women?

[ghost69]

I have read a lot of your posts and it seems that many typical social interactions seem quite confusing to you.

 

I was just wondering, do you ever feel like your social interactions are forced, scripted, mechanical and unnatural?

 

Do you have the same feelings of needing to analyze things when it comes to your male friends, family, & coworkers, or is it just with women?

 

the answer to this should be good. *waits*

[greywolf]

Like the others have said. It's someone who is not always so serious. Who can sometimes act silly and childish. But my advice to you is to be who you are. You can't change your personality for each girl you come accross.

[BellaDonna]

the answer to this should be good. *waits*

 

Well I think it would help to know. I am not trying to pick on ConfusedDater- just gain more understanding about the confusion.

[ghost69]

Well I think it would help to know. I am not trying to pick on ConfusedDater- just gain more understanding about the confusion.

 

oh, i know. it's over and over again. same type of questions. it's concerning a bit.

[riley123]

You can't change your personality for each girl you come accross.

 

Exactly.

 

"All I can do is be me, whoever that is."

[hers]

oh, i know. it's over and over again. same type of questions. it's concerning a bit.

 

He's NEVER answered anything about friends or family. We have all asked him a hundred times and he always skips over those questions. You'll be waiting a while.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

Someone who can kid around and be goofy, who is not serious 24 hours a day...someone with a sense of humour...but also someone who can do little things that are romantic in nature..not the romantic cliches, but just little things that are romantic.

[ConfusedDater]

I have read a lot of your posts and it seems that many typical social interactions seem quite confusing to you.

 

I was just wondering, do you ever feel like your social interactions are forced, scripted, mechanical and unnatural?

 

Do you have the same feelings of needing to analyze things when it comes to your male friends, family, & coworkers, or is it just with women?

 

 

well of course i wouldn;t analyze my interactions with my family or male friends because it's a lot different from trying to impress a pretty female. So NO i don't analyze it because i'm not trying to impress them

[ghost69]

well of course i wouldn;t analyze my interactions with my family or male friends because it's a lot different from trying to impress a pretty female. So NO i don't analyze it because i'm not trying to impress them

 

well that gives us nothing to help with.

[LanceVanceDance]

well of course i wouldn;t analyze my interactions with my family or male friends because it's a lot different from trying to impress a pretty female. So NO i don't analyze it because i'm not trying to impress them

 

That could be your problem right there. I reckon you ought to try less with women. Talk to them the same way you'd talk to a friend, don't try to act "impressive".

[ConfusedDater]

That could be your problem right there. I reckon you ought to try less with women. Talk to them the same way you'd talk to a friend, don't try to act "impressive".

 

that's not possible

[LanceVanceDance]

that's not possible

 

Why's that?

[ConfusedDater]

Why's that?

 

Because I'm not trying to date my male friends and don't care how I look around them

[BellaDonna]

Just treat women as if they are average human beings, not some mysterious creatures that you have to impress all the time. Dating should not be this painful/complex.

[LanceVanceDance]

Because I'm not trying to date my male friends and don't care how I look around them

 

So, try not to care so much about how you look around women? You can't really force yourself to impress people, at least not for long.

[ImThatGirl]

As long as you put dating and meeting "the one" on a pedestal and treat it like it has to happen to make you content with life, you will have problems, CD.

 

You have to have to have to relax and find a way to always be yourself rather than re-create who you are to find someone. In any case, you change just to reel someone in, they are going to see the real you at some point. And at that point, they could still walk away.....