Bigbilly Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Long story short, two years a girlfriend I had broke up with me. I'm over it, but something has struck me as baffling. Her reasons for ending the relationship have changed five or six times now in the last two years. At the time she said it was a lack of love and that she wanted to be single (she had developed a crush on a player, who did wind up using her a week after our relationship ended). The reasons have changed gradually. First it was that she had 'fallen out of love' and then it became wanting to be young and single even though within three months of our relationship ending she began another long-term relationship. And now I've discovered through the grapevine she's been telling people I was abusive and controlling. Abusive!?! Controlling? I never laid an unkind hand on her, or ever exerted any sort of mental abuse on her! Can someone explain this to me? This abuse thing isn't something you can throw around flippantly, and I'm genuinely confused. Link to comment
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