chibuku2000 Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Hi, i'm just looking for a bit of advice, maybe a female perspective on a problem i've got. I love my girlfriend to bits, I try to do everything I can to make her happy, but I keep on finding myslef getting increasingly jealous, and I wanted to sort this out before it ends up ruining our relationship. I'm happy when my girlfriend goes out with her mates, has some drinks and goes patying - the problem is that she gets a lot of male attention, from random guys in bars/clubs which I can live with, but also from guys she works with, and particularly from a number of ex-boyfriends who keep on texting and calling her. I trust her completely - i'm sure she would never cheat on me, but whenever I see these guys names pop up on her phone, or they call her when she's with me, I just start getting really angry with the situation, and inevitably take it out on her. I've told her that it really upsets me that she's still talking to / texting these guys, but I can't dictate to her who she should be talking to, and, as she still speaks to the ex's on occasions, I just wondered if anyone had any advice on how best to deal with this situation so that it doesn't ruin my relationship with her? Thanks Link to comment
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