Russ Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 So I've been going out with this girl for a little while now. She's amazingly intelligent, quick, witty, you know, the whole personality part. Which to me is 70% of the relationship. There is one problem though. She's.. unattractive physically. And I know it's completely shallow, but hell, there's got to be some sort of physical attraction, right? I don't want to leave her because of this though. She can look stunning, but after her last breakup, she put on a ton of weight. So.. being the completely honest idiot that I am, I felt I had to square things. She's been asking me why I'm not all cuddly and touchy-feely. And she's been harassing me about this for a while. So I told her, in the best possible way. I did stress that I don't want to end it because I feel the emotional part of a relationship is much more important. She wasn't upset, and she told me that she understands, and I know she's actually started to try and lose weight, because of me. But we've had this inside thing about.. well, honesty, and I feel if I can be this open with her, we'll be able to get past anything in the future. Comments and opinions. I do know I'm a total sleaze, etc, for telling this to her, but I didn't want to lie to her about all of this, so don't cuss me out completely. Link to comment
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