cichlid Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 I've been dating him since the beginning of the year; a little over 7 months to be exact. Sometimes I want to tell him that I have developed a lot of feelings for him but then I know I don't want to rush into anything. I felt like the L word was said too soon in my last relationship (my ex said it first). I am a little commitment-phobic and so is he. I also don't like saying the word all the time like my ex did. But I don't know...I miss that word so much. Sometimes I feel like telling him that I think I feel that way about him but other times I am not sure that I am ready for that word. I also don't want to make him uncomfortable. He once told me that he tries to not have sex as much as I want it because he feels like he is developing too many feelings for me too quickly. But then went on to clarify that his previous relationship was based on sex and does not want to see our relationship end up the same way. That he wants ours to be based on more than that...that being able to hang out without sex is important. So anyway...when is the typical time to say it? One this is certain...I miss my BF. He's on a 5 week trip right now and just left at the beginning of this week. I miss him SOOOOOO much right now! We were on a weekend lake trip and then he leaves for the rest of the summer. Link to comment
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