FireFighter84 Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Hi, I'm now with this girl for over 8 months and we took things really slow for having sex. The first time was after 3 months. I really love her and thus as male respected her to wait such u long time. Yes for me this is an eternity! (I used to flirt alot). When the moment was there, it hurted alot for her becouse... I was her first. Unfortunately the pain didnt went over after a couple of times. We tried everything: lubrication, taking it easy , gynaecologist. Nothing worked.. until at a sudden day, it didnt hurt for her (but she feels no excitement either). Now I thought we could finally get some more sex. But this is not happening. We have sex once in 2 weeks. It's really killing me. I'm young and want more more sex. Want i start over the issue she says I can only think off sex. We had a lot of arguing about this. Its frustrating to know a healthy young couple has 3 or more times sex a week. I really need it once a week or more. Also she has some annoying excuses to not have sex with me: -I'm tired -Need to go home -We had sex a few days ago -It's not the right time And so on. What can I do ? Link to comment
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