hockeyplaya44 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Sometimes when I see a girl who I'm especially attracted to (the exact type of girl I like) they stay in my mind for a period of time. For example, the girl I mentioned in the other thread with the big glasses. I saw her yesterday, but today she's still on my mind, and I wish I had of talked to her. I hope to see her there again sometime so I can have another shot at it. Do other people get that or do I need help? haha. Thanks. Link to comment
tryinrealhard Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 You couldn't be more normal if you tried. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 you sound pretty normal. Just as long as you aren't collecting their used bubblegum and making a statue in your closet. I think that's a little over the line....... Link to comment
hockeyplaya44 Posted July 10, 2008 Author Share Posted July 10, 2008 you sound pretty normal. Just as long as you aren't collecting their used bubblegum and making a statue in your closet. I think that's a little over the line....... Haha! That one made made me laugh. Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Of course thats normal Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 pretty normal. 'tis how crushes start too. i agree on the gum thing. lol Link to comment
hockeyplaya44 Posted July 10, 2008 Author Share Posted July 10, 2008 Now that that is cleared up...how creepy would it be to track her down on facebook? Link to comment
Carmine Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 you sound pretty normal. Just as long as you aren't collecting their used bubblegum and making a statue in your closet. I think that's a little over the line....... Lol you got that from hey arnold. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Now that that is cleared up...how creepy would it be to track her down on facebook? i dunno. you have no rapport with her. can you see her in person again? Link to comment
hockeyplaya44 Posted July 10, 2008 Author Share Posted July 10, 2008 i dunno. you have no rapport with her. can you see her in person again? I will probably eat at this restaurant only 2 or 3 more times this summer so it is doubtful. The restaurant has sort of a cult following because it is a one-of-a-kind restaurant in a tourist attractive area of where I live. Because of that, I came accross the facebook profile of the waitress that was serving me yesterday on a facebook group pertaining to the restaurant. Probably the only way to ever contact this girl ever again is to message the waitress that was serving me saying I thought the girl in the glasses was cute. I'm pretty apprehensive about doing that because: 1. It could come accross as creepy 2.The girl might not be super excited about a customer messaging her about a co-worker of hers; she could possibly feel insulted. 3.What's under the big glasses could indeed be a surprise... Link to comment
xxNPxx Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Actually I don't think it's normal. lol I just gotta be different and say the opposite. For me, even if I see a girl I like, I don't think about the person more then 2 - 3 hours. If even that. Even with girls I really think I "clicked" with, only 2 - 3 hours. Most girls I forget about after 15 minutes. I only had 2 girls in my life time that I could not stop thinking about. And at the most that lasted for a week, though I did see them everyday... Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Lol you got that from hey arnold. I've been found out! Link to comment
Crush85 Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Sometimes when I see a girl who I'm especially attracted to (the exact type of girl I like) they stay in my mind for a period of time. For example, the girl I mentioned in the other thread with the big glasses. I saw her yesterday, but today she's still on my mind, and I wish I had of talked to her. I hope to see her there again sometime so I can have another shot at it. Do other people get that or do I need help? haha. Thanks. I get this way too. For about a year, I've noticed this really cute girl that works at the El Pollo Loco near my house. I probably go there like once a month, but I always see her there. I went there the other night to grab a burrito and I saw her again. She's still on my mind ... So yeah, it's normal. I wouldn't worry about it. Link to comment
Stars_n_Guitars Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 I too have done this. Thought about a guy long after he's faded from view. But the reason I continue thinking about him is because I regret not making a move. I say, grow some balls! Next time you see someone you want to talk to, talk to them! I think regret is worse than a possible rejection! Link to comment
Bkoguy07 Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Man if you found her on facebook that would be weird and how would you get her name. That would take alot of talent lol Link to comment
hockeyplaya44 Posted July 11, 2008 Author Share Posted July 11, 2008 Man if you found her on facebook that would be weird and how would you get her name. That would take alot of talent lol I found the girl who was serving me, so I could ask her in a message on facebook. Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 your in the norm here bra. just dont become some crazy @$$ stalker. crushin or wishful thinking is ok but constantly pondering on the person means your coo coo. if you see her again go talk to her cause there is obviously a reason she keeps crossin your path. Link to comment
PinkPearls Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Id vote totally normal, however... DONT do the facebook thing! Thats the empitome of "Facebook Stalker". Maybe you could make an out-of-the-way trip to go to the restaurant again? Id try to talk to her in person... if you see her again, and shes wearing the glasses, complement her on them... if shes not, make a comment about remembering them. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Id vote totally normal, however... DONT do the facebook thing! Thats the empitome of "Facebook Stalker". Maybe you could make an out-of-the-way trip to go to the restaurant again? Id try to talk to her in person... if you see her again, and shes wearing the glasses, complement her on them... if shes not, make a comment about remembering them. again i reiterate this. 100% agree. man up, walk in, talk to her. something i'd do. 'scuse me.' look like you are upset about the service you had. she comes over. 'yes?' all puzzled. 'i was in here the other day and i saw you but you were busy. i wanted to see if you'd like to get some coffee with me sometime.' she will blush her pants off. Link to comment
PinkPearls Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 again i reiterate this. 100% agree. man up, walk in, talk to her. something i'd do. 'scuse me.' look like you are upset about the service you had. she comes over. 'yes?' all puzzled. 'i was in here the other day and i saw you but you were busy. i wanted to see if you'd like to get some coffee with me sometime.' she will blush her pants off. Haha, wouldnt that just be an extra bonus Link to comment
hockeyplaya44 Posted July 14, 2008 Author Share Posted July 14, 2008 again i reiterate this. 100% agree. man up, walk in, talk to her. something i'd do. 'scuse me.' look like you are upset about the service you had. she comes over. 'yes?' all puzzled. 'i was in here the other day and i saw you but you were busy. i wanted to see if you'd like to get some coffee with me sometime.' she will blush her pants off. It's not an issue of manning up, its an issue of her being there that would be perfect...im goin there tomorow...I hope she's there. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 It's not an issue of manning up, its an issue of her being there that would be perfect...im goin there tomorow...I hope she's there. that is manning up bro. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 Hopefully she'll be there! I have to say though, I don't think the facebook idea is terrible (if you don't see her there again...) I met someone once... Talked for a little while - we had to part ways but I found conversation to be great with him and he had made a comment to a friend of mine about me. During conversation, he told me where he works. I searched for their myspace business page, found him on it, added him, I'd consider him a friend now... But - I didn't hit him with "I really wanna go on a date with you!" either. Link to comment
hockeyplaya44 Posted July 16, 2008 Author Share Posted July 16, 2008 I ended up going to the restaurant today instead. Sure enough, she was working. She didn't have the glasses on this time and she really is pretty, even without them. So, I sat at my table and she wasn't around quite as much. When she did finally walk by I smiled at her and she darted her eyes away then sort of smiled. She went into the back and when she came out guess what, she had her glasses on haha. I tried talking to her when I paid my bill but she seemed sort of nervous and awkward so I couldn't really get anything going. Aaanyways, time to move on I guess lol. I met a girl on a weekend trip so I'm going to see how that turns out. Not sure about the 1.5 hour drive though. Link to comment
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