SchecterGuy Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Broke up with my long term ex in October, started actually feeling sad in June and I am kind of broken right now. I know this is weird considering my recent thread, but there is this girl at my work who I do not find physically attractive (4.5 to 5), but what does attract me is that I always see her at work wearing shirts of punk bands. Cool for two reasons. One it is nice to see someone here that is not a complete prep. Two the fact that she can wear those shirts working at a defense firm is pretty ballsy. Basically I am attracted to the fact that she is different (but like me) living in an area that has a very fundamentalist culture. Like me she represents one in a million. Problem comes back though to the lack of physical attraction. Like if I did pursue it would be because I am hurt and she would be comforting. Or if I just stayed friends I would end up leading her on. Its sucks because I bet personality wise we would go well together (both quiet and both into counterculture). I cannot tell if I am putting her on a pedastol because of my position or if I am actually looking for more substance than physical attraction. I get the impression the response will be wait until I am totally healed from the breakup and see how I feel. This maybre true, but at the same time wants wise or emotional condition wise I do not see much changing for a very long time. Link to comment
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