gonzo777 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 I was in a 9 month relationship that ended a month ago. She broke up with me, telling me that she didn't want to be in a serious relationship. Once we broke up she refused to talk or see me. She became friends with a good friend of mine that's been around for a long time. They now hang out all the time. It's never just the two of them, but it still bothers me, because I still have feelings for this girl and was devastated by the breakup. I called my friend last night to tell him that I was having issues with them spending time together. He told me that she has tried to kiss him when they were drunk but he wouldn't let her because we are friends. I had a long talk with him and now they aren't going to spend as much time together, but I feel that they shouldn't spend anytime at all together......is that fair? We have been good friends for years and he knows it messes me up knowing that they spend time together, I tried calling my ex and I left a message saying that I lost respect for what she has done and that she shouldn't try to get with my friend. Of course she wouldn't talk to me, so I left a text saying that we really should talk. She then texted me, which was a complete surprise, she said that she isn't my girlfriend and for me to stop trying to contact her...What does this mean? Why can't she talk to me? What should I do about my friend? Any help would be Greatly appreciated... Link to comment
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