ljoy74 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 I'm a girl and I can't answer this one! Why is it that girls flirt with boys who very clearly have girlfriends? To me that's a giant turn off and as respect for his girlfriend, I DO NOT flirt with him. I'm not one of those psycho-fruitcake girlfriends but there is one girl who just loved to flirt with my ex. We'd been dating for years and he very clearly was not interested and still isn't. So why is it that girls continue to want taken guys? Link to comment
AnotherBrokenDoll Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Theres another topic very much like this one. I will say what i said there, people want what they cant have. It makes things more interesting and its more of a rush. Guys who dump their girlfriends for these girls are in for complications. If she lead one on knowing they were taken, whats to stop her doing it knowing she is taken? On the other side it could be some deep and personal problem where she feels that she needs the attention from males to validate her own importance. Link to comment
Jetta Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Several reasons come to mind. Natural Flirts Interested in the guy and don't care that's he's involved. Think they're hot * * * * and can get him regardless of his status. He's flirting back perhaps. Flirting is healthy and fun. It's when it's gets beyond that it's a concern. Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 No follow through If so they get an ego boost Some girls like to know they can get a man to go astray Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 They are insecure with themselves and their self image so they go after guys that are safe to get their fix. If they flirted with single guys then they would have a problem when they came sniffing around. Selfish people do terrible things. lost Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 it's a challenge. some girls like it. Link to comment
PinkPearls Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 I think a lot of it is having the guy flirt back, or even pay attention to them, is an ego boost. I personally find it distasteful and trashy, but to each girl their own I suppose... Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 its to see how much power they have over men and probably personal insecurities. They hit on taken men to see if the men will react regardless of being commited. If the men react the women take it as a score to boost thier ego and self esteem. It also falls into play that they want what they cant have. Link to comment
ljoy74 Posted July 10, 2008 Author Share Posted July 10, 2008 I kind of think it has something to do with poor relationships in the past... Sort of like, I didn't get approval from him, better try the next person to walk by, regardless of everything else. Link to comment
Stambler Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Similar thing... Why do I always get looks from women who are with guys? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Similar thing... Why do I always get looks from women who are with guys? because you tripped and fell in front of them. or you are staring. lol jk man. >. Link to comment
MD Geist Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 I'm a girl and I can't answer this one! Why is it that girls flirt with boys who very clearly have girlfriends? To me that's a giant turn off and as respect for his girlfriend, I DO NOT flirt with him. I'm not one of those psycho-fruitcake girlfriends but there is one girl who just loved to flirt with my ex. We'd been dating for years and he very clearly was not interested and still isn't. So why is it that girls continue to want taken guys? My question is why do women with boyfriends show interest to single guys?. I have been a victim of this manytimes before and I don't understand why!. Link to comment
dani_7 Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 When my friends do it they do it because ONE, they want him and don't care of he has a girlfriend. That is the BIGGEST reason. TWO, it's more of a challenge. THREE, and this really only applies to one girl I personally know, she is a * * * * ty * * * * * with no morals or self-respect. (Sorry, I had a "friend" that does this ALL the time, and that is my opinion of her, because I personally know her, I don't think all girls who does this are like her) Link to comment
ljoy74 Posted July 12, 2008 Author Share Posted July 12, 2008 Perhaps I'm just ridiculously old fashioned or something but I would never flirt with a guy while I'm dating someone else. I want him to have the same amount of respect and love for me as I do for him. As for the crappy flirty friend, the girl I mentioned in my thread used to be a very good friend. When my boyf of 4 years and I got together she went nuts! She kept making passes at him while we were dating and I couldn't be friends with someone that low and sleazy. Link to comment
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