meagzt Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Ok, I've posted here before... and my life seems so hectic sometimes, but here we go! The father of my baby and I are not together. He was verbally abusive and I ended it. We still talk, but only about my doctor's appointments, what they tell me, due dates... the typical baby stuff. And I keep my personaly life out of our conversations. This weekend I was in my hometown, where he lives, visiting family for the holiday when I ran into some old friends. One of my exes from high school was with them. He and I get along pretty well and we have no interest in eachother what so ever, but my baby daddy saw this and decided to confront me about it as if we were still together. He also gets mas because I still hang out and talk to a guy that I went on a few dates with. We gave it a shot, it didn't feel right since we had been friends before hand and decided to remain just friends. He wants to tell me about how he saw us at a restaurant together and how he felt so jealous and wanted to kick this guy's butt. Each time he confronts me with this, I remind him that even though I am having his baby, we are not together and he cannot control my personal life. I feel that my only obligation to him is having a healthy baby. It's none of his business who I date or don't date. And who I talk to and don't talk to. Am I wrong for thinking this way? I may be having a baby but I'm not dead! I still deserve to have a love life, whether it's with him or not. But he tells our friends about it an makes me out to be the bad person in this situation. Am I wrong here?? Link to comment
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