bubblegrl Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 I been getting alot guys..since i broke up with my boyfriend....but i still want to be with my ex ..i want him back and i havent talked to him for almost 8 days..NC! but i get along with his cousins and friends ..should i tell his cousins about this guys.. do you think he would get jealous??? would it be a good idea...? mybe he will come back?? i just want him back............................. Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Why not give the guy the space requested... like we talked about yesterday and move on with your life. If that involves other guys then so be it. Trying to make your EX jealous is not a good idea. You'll more than likely piss him off. Link to comment
Whiskers Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 I been getting alot guys..since i broke up with my boyfriend....but i still want to be with my ex ..i want him back and i havent talked to him for almost 8 days..NC! but i get along with his cousins and friends ..should i tell his cousins about this guys.. do you think he would get jealous??? would it be a good idea...? mybe he will come back?? i just want him back............................. Talking to his cousins about what you are doing with another guy or guys, in the hope that your ex will find out and perhaps be jealous, is a sure fire way for everything to back fire on you big time and leaving you looking and feeling like and idiot. Clearly he has asked for space and deep down you know that you should be giving it to him. What you should be doing is trying to get past this time and get over him. Of course you want him back, there are a million posters on here saying similar things and just as many saying that it doesn't always work when they get their ex back. You should be guarding yourself rather than holding out the welcome banner in reserve for whether he may or may not come back to you. This situation can only back fire. It's not fair for you to get involved with another guy in the hope of your ex hearing about it, it will cause you further pain and he will suffer in the middle of a situation that he couldn't have helped. Your best bet, is to back of completely. Take time to yourself, spread your wings and leave your mind open to possibilities of someone loving you more than your ex did and some that causes your ex to pale in comparison to. If he comes back, then he comes back but nothing you shove in his face will make it happen any quicker. XXXX Link to comment
Taylor527 Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 I'm in the same situation as you. I have 7 other guys chasing after to me but none of them do I remotely feel anything close to what I feel for my ex. It sucks, but you just have to try to pursue a relationship or friendship with other guys, eventually you will fall for a new, better one and forget about your ex. Don't close yourself off from the other guys in your life... Gosh, I should practice what I preach!! Link to comment
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