gigglyfreedom Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Hey everyone. So this is going to sound like a dumb question. Especially since I bet it has an obvious answer. But I just CANT seem to do it right haha no matter how hard i try. I'm talking flirting LOL.... haha, in the last few days Ive been to gay/lesbian/bi events, have even gone to a gay/les/bi party thing and i had SEVERAL VERY CLEAR opportunities for flirting - occasions where a girl would actually LOOK my way, - i even got a SMILE from one and I either just kept staring back like open-mouthed in bewilderment until she finally got bored and moved away or walked to a different place, or I was COMPLETELY unable to do the whole 'looking away and down and smiling' thing. I was also unable to sustain a conversation with a really pretty girl that I decided I'd talk to. hahaha i went BLANK. It was SO frustrating to realize that I had gotten several chances and had like wasted them all. The most frustrating one i think is the aspect of me going COMPLETELY red and reallly nervous when a pretty girl looks at me, that I immediately look down - but I look away and down FOREVER hahaha, like i never put my head up again to see if shes still there. THAT sucks. And the biggest reason it all sucks is because: 1. without sounding full of myself (im not), im actually quite cute people tell me - so I shouldnt be afraid or lacking confidence. 2. I'm not typically shy at all in all other every-day situations! I havent had much experience in the flirting in-person thing, but..I'm wondering if you think that there is hope for me haha or if Im just a totally hopeless case... please be honest. What do you think i can do to improve my 'skills' and really feel confident? Im told i have a good sense of humour and that i should use that when flirting...do you think that could be a cool thing to do? Only i dont want to fall into the trap of one-liners. thats REALLY lame. anyways please help! thanks!! Link to comment
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