I need some serious advice please!

[Leon]

I've recently found out that a friend of mine likes me, I feel kind of bad, she basically had to spell it out for me to finally get it, but I had been in a crap mood recently because I had some problems with some girls and was trying to avoid another mess.

 

She's really cool and I think she deserves it for the amount of effort she has put into getting my attention. I think I'm going to start doing things with her, but she told me that she's going off to college this fall, and I'm not sure how I can maintain a good relationship with her if she's away. She's not TOO far away, but I won't have time to see her. What can I do besides e-mailing her and talking to her through aim, I seriously need help/advice. I want to make something work for a change, and I want this to work which is why I'm doing everything I can! Thanks in advance to those that help me!

[ghost69]

do you ever see this person 'in-person'? also, i hope you want to date her because you actually like her and not because she deserves to date you for the trouble she went through.

[Leon]

do you ever see this person 'in-person'? also, i hope you want to date her because you actually like her and not because she deserves to date you for the trouble she went through.

 

 

Yes! I know her in person but she told me she will be going to college in the fall. I'm asking how we can maintain a relationship when we are far apart.

 

Also I do like her, but I kind of never acted on anything really until she made it obvious she likes me. Plus we work together so it's hard to do that stuff.

[ghost69]

Yes! I know her in person but she told me she will be going to college in the fall. I'm asking how we can maintain a relationship when we are far apart.

 

Also I do like her, but I kind of never acted on anything really until she made it obvious she likes me. Plus we work together so it's hard to do that stuff.

 

hmm, i would never get involved with a coworker. but since she will be leaving, i dunno. but you never really thought about her until she showed interest. so i'd go with your gut. do you really want to get involved with her?

[Leon]

Well there are 2 or 3 couples at our job so I'm pretty sure it doesn't matter to people here.

 

Originally I just was being friendly with her, but we started to tease each other, and I wanted to hang out with her outside work but didn't know if she had a boyfriend so I asked my other friend at work and he said he wasn't sure. So I didn't advance much.

 

She seemed so happy to see me but I was scared to open up to her, but she finally told me how she wanted us to get to know eachother better and wanted me to stop being distant. I'm okay with it for sure. She made it pretty darn clear that night.