Is it possible to ask a girl out, then talk about it to the point you dont want to go out anymore

[Prime]

This may sound like a weird question but I am planning to ask a girl out this weekend.

 

I asked her out about a year ago but she had a job that required 100% travel and asking to be her boyfriend at the time was like offering a triathlon runner a cup of sand to quench their thirst. It was too much for her to handle and i dont blame her. So we backed down again and have been really close since.

 

She is very shy and is a huge over- analyzer of just about everything. She also has trust issues and has trouble being close to people- sounds like a lot to put up with but she had a hard childhood, but I absolutely crazy about her and in my heart i feel like i am falling for her.

 

We talk everyday and see each other every chance we get.

 

Now my question is regarding when i ask her out, I am afraid she may completely over analyze the entire question, then she will start talking about it and probably completely kill the mood. and that is what i am worried about. Then i am expecting an awkward silence and go from there, we both are kind of socially awkward.

 

I want to ask her out, and let everything else fall into place, how can this be done?

 

Or should i just not ask her out, and continue what we are doing....

[Cognitive_Canine]

Dude, you are the one over analyzing this. Just ask her out and go from there...

[Prime]

Ha! i you may be right...

[NametheGame]

What debaser wolf said...if there's an awkward silence just say something like "I'm so glad you said yes" if that's what she said, or some "sweet nothing" like that lol. It's not the end of the world. Best of luck!

[ghost69]

you say you talk all the time and see each other all the time. are you dating or just buddies hanging out at this point? i'm just thinking it's possible you friendzoned yourself.