renaissancewoman101 Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Title says it all. Here's most recent pic. I know I tend to be hard on myself a lot. image removed I don't get approached by guys a lot. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 You need to smile bigger! Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Ren, You don't get approached by guys a lot because you are VERY insecure. I think you are pretty. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are guys who will think some of the top super models are hideous, and someone who most would find to be "average or below" to be the most gorgeous woman in the world. Once you find yourself beautiful others will see your beauty shine from within to your exterior. Before you try to find someone to love you, you need to love yourself, and who you are . Link to comment
thejigsup Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Your very petite and cute! You just don't look relaxed at all. I had a friend tell me that once, (the relaxed part). I started to smile and relax more and guys were less afraid to approach lme. Trust me, to men, a friendly smile is the first step to true beauty! Link to comment
fragmint Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 yes you dont look very relaxed or comfortable in that picture. relax and just be yourself =) Link to comment
NametheGame Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Ren, Before you try to find someone to love you, you need to love yourself, and who you are . That pretty much says it all! Smile like you mean it Do things you enjoy Take care of your appearance but otherwise don't worry about it Be friendly and approachable if you want to be approached Just focus on enjoying life and giving it your all. Have fun with it. That's the most attractive thing in the world... Link to comment
Gingerstar Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 You have beautiful hair (I would ill for your hair) a nice tan, your petite which is way cute. I think it's because you have no confidence. I have seen girls way less attractive than you with boyfriends and hot boyfriends too. They were very confident girls. And I've seen pretty girls with no one due to their lack of self asteem. Link to comment
monkeyface Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Have you thought about getting a professional opinion about makeup and hair? You have a great head of hair, but it really isn't doing anything for your face. A long side-swept bang would be adorable and sassy on you. Also, even a little bit of mascara and blush can make a huge difference, or a lip tint if you do not like lipstick. You might want to get your eyebrows shaped as well. I agree that you do look very uncomfortable in that photo. Relax! Life and dating is supposed to be fun! Also, do you workout at all? You have a nice figure, but working out even for 20-30 minutes a day can make a major improvement in toning up. And, maybe check out your local bookstore for books on attraction/flirting/self-esteem. I know that you have posted your photos on here before looking for advice on your appearance...have you taken any of it? Link to comment
McLovin oo7 Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Ren, You don't get approached by guys a lot because you are VERY insecure. I think you are pretty. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are guys who will think some of the top super models are hideous, and someone who most would find to be "average or below" to be the most gorgeous woman in the world. Once you find yourself beautiful others will see your beauty shine from within to your exterior. Before you try to find someone to love you, you need to love yourself, and who you are . I think snoopy is right. At the end of day, you gotta love and respect yourself if you want others to do that. you are, what you think you are. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Have you thought about getting a professional opinion about makeup and hair? You have a great head of hair, but it really isn't doing anything for your face. A long side-swept bang would be adorable and sassy on you. Also, even a little bit of mascara and blush can make a big difference You would look so cute with some sideswept bangs. You really don't need a lot of makeup because you are naturally bronzed. However, just a little bit of gloss and a smile and you're in business. Link to comment
Bkoguy07 Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Ren, You don't get approached by guys a lot because you are VERY insecure. I think you are pretty. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are guys who will think some of the top super models are hideous, and someone who most would find to be "average or below" to be the most gorgeous woman in the world. Once you find yourself beautiful others will see your beauty shine from within to your exterior. Before you try to find someone to love you, you need to love yourself, and who you are . Hell yeah super models are ugly for the most part and too skinny good post! Link to comment
Luke Skywalker Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 You are writing lots of posts and threads on this subject before and people are responding the same way -- that you have to have those happy vibes going out or look more relaxed like you'd be fun to be around, or that being this insecure about how you are looking is counter-productive to being attractive and it comes accross on vibes. The only thing is that you are very short. Is that is what's bothering you? Anyway, yeah, I better stay away from your picture before it arouses raw animalistic passions within me because you are just too hot -- too dangerous. People are intimidated by you, that's why they are staying away from you because you bring out the beast in guys and they have to keep their composure before they lose all control. That's the problem - you are too hot and are burning rubber -- got to tone it down a bit, wear pants or something less seductive, then maybe people wont be as intimidated! Ok, that's the truth so there, or maybe I'm just so horney I'll eat anything. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted July 9, 2008 Author Share Posted July 9, 2008 Luke Skywalker, yes, my height bothers me a lot. I try not to let it bother me, but it is like a thorn in my side. I know I am not ugly and that I can attract guys. Heck, I had a bf for two years and most of those two years were great. And I know when I am happier, I attract guys to me (it's kind of funny, when I was dating my ex, I actually had guys approach me and ask me out). As for the pic, I know I look tense in it. I was tense and nervous most of that day. I had gone, with my parents and brother, to a wedding of a family friend, and I was nervous about having my mom's friends ask me about my life, etc. It's kind of interesting when you look at pics of my brother from that day, he is so relaxed and you can sense the confidence that oozes from him vs me, the tense one. Link to comment
Gingerstar Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 I'm short, really short and guys LOVE it!! why does it bother you?? my husband is over a foot taller than me but he thinks it's adorable! Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted July 9, 2008 Author Share Posted July 9, 2008 Gingerstar, I've had so many people in my life make fun of me for being short. And my mom also likes to tell me that the fact that I'm so short, embarrasses her. I'm 4'5" Link to comment
Luke Skywalker Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Luke Skywalker, yes, my height bothers me a lot. I try not to let it bother me, but it is like a thorn in my side. I like the way you expressed that. I relate to what you are saying. We have thorns on our side, and we try not to let it bother us, but sometimes something happens that triggers it and then it starts to bother us. But, roses have thorns, thereforeee you must be a rose. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Oh, God, I hate being short! No, I'm not nearly as short as you, ren. I'm around 5'3'' but I can't stand it. Everything from the waist up looks as if I should be 5'6'' but my legs are just so disproportionate....... Link to comment
Bkoguy07 Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Oh, God, I hate being short! No, I'm not nearly as short as you, ren. I'm around 5'3'' but I can't stand it. Everything from the waist up looks as if I should be 5'6'' but my legs are just so disproportionate....... disproportionate in your head Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted July 9, 2008 Author Share Posted July 9, 2008 Debaser, I know what you mean about disproportionate. Sometimes I feel like my torso and head look ok and then I got stuck with short legs. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Gingerstar, I've had so many people in my life make fun of me for being short. And my mom also likes to tell me that the fact that I'm so short, embarrasses her. I'm 4'5" my.. that's horrible to say!!! cant believe it to be honest.. lots of guys like petite girls. I'm petite, though I am 5'2-5'3 (average height). i wouldnt want to be taller. my sis dealt with something like you mention with people making fun of her. she gets told she has fat arms and fat legs. i dont get it. how can people be so mean? for no reason. i mean she is a nice kid etc. i definitely think it's totally not true she has fat arms, but now she even feels embaressed to really show em off. newho, we're working on it and i try to encourage her that what those people said isn't true. infact those people who told her that had their own body image issues and are truly the overweight ones. maybe the ones who "made fun" of you where just making comments? in a none teasing way? if someone is short people sometimes say "hey.. your so short but cute". just comments, not meant in a bad way.. try your best to brush off comments ... especially from your mom. Link to comment
Lily04 Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 I second this. Will make you FEEL hot as well, which is important too That's why, even though i'm 5'10", i still wear heels.. i'm tall enough , i dont need them, but they do wonders for my confidence (I just look better in them - better posture & makes my legs look even longer...) I dont know. Makeup & hair does the same thing - boosts confidence. You're lucky that you have long hair - I have short & cant do much with it (I'm wearing extensions now..) Link to comment
StrawberryYogurt Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Since you asked, no, I don't think you are attractive, but that's just one guy's opinion. Link to comment
Godwin Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 I think your cute. Dont be too down on yourself Link to comment
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