Karmageddon Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 I think I just need a little clarity from the ENA group. Quickly, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half as he was treating me very poorly for the past 3 months. Doing the disappearing act then showing up again when you think he is gone for good. So finally my heart couldn't take it anymore the last time he did it, so I told him we were done & that he wasnt allowed to treat me this way anymore. This was June 30th and now every couple days I have been getting text messages from him & they just break my heart. I get used to the idea that I will never hear from him, try to pull myself up by my bootstraps and get on with my life and then boom here he is. Telling me how much he loves and misses me, how important I am to him. How he misses the support and love I gave him, how he knows I was the best thing for him blah blah blah... all of which I have heard before over the the last couple months which made me want to just jump in his arms and go "yeay you finally figured it out!" and when I do...off he goes....again. So why am I so frustrated right now when I knew he would do this? I expected it, but it doesn't make it any easier. I see it all over this board, this is nothing special only in so much as I have never been treated like this, so it is definitely new to me. I have stuck to my resolve, i am polite and to the point in any responses, but doing that is probably the hardest thing I have ever done. I wanted to tell him a bunch of stuff, so I came here instead I have lost so much these last couple years, now him & I am feeling just incredibly weak and vulnerable and I am normally such a strong person. I know he will give up eventually & that will kill me too. This is a situation where I cannot win. Link to comment
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