KAT MOMMY Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 Hey guys. I have a male platonic friend whom I have known for the past two years. When I met him he was going through an ugly seperation with his wife. He tried to talk to me on the romantic tip but I refused to date him or anything of the sort and we started to become good friends. He needed closure in his marriage and wanted a clean break in order to get his life in order. The guy is 26 and has no children. One night we were out on the town and he stopped past someone's house to get something and there was a female there who was talking to him via body language. I picked up on her vibe and told him to go and get her-OK he did and instead of him treating her as she came and is he took time with her and started loving her. So not even six months they decide to up and move to PA-he was ready and so was she-so it seemed. They packed and left-in about 3 months he called asking to send him some money-I did and then a month or so later he called and said they were in GA and that is where they will be. Like 3 weeks ago they came back concked out, car wrecked, and all their things gone. Literally went from something to nothing in a matter of 7 months. He is living at his mom's trying to bridge the gap and the g/f is a total loser! She looks like crap ALL the time, she is lame and IMO he needs to ditch her. So I told him that when I come to see him I'd rather just him and I chill out. Now she was chilling a few times with him and I and that was OK but I feel as if she is the reason he failed at his endevour and that angers me. She crashed the car-not him. Her mother was in PA and this is where they left from to go to GA with no friends or family. She has two boys and is much older than him. Anyway he told her what I said and she called my phone and left a nasty message telling me to stay away from him-etc, etc,' So should I tell my ex-friend the way I feel or should I call her back and put her silly tail in her place? What would you do? I am a one man band (wo)man so I dont need friends at all I am not upset that there is going to be one less but at the same time if I am going to lose a friend shouldn't I be able to at least give my view-or no? Link to comment
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