PurposeNotWishes Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 There's this guy that I've been friends with for about 8 months or so. We haven't been incredibly close, usually just hanging out when we're in a group of mutual friends (and if we're in the same conversation, we usually end up in an argument). Neither one of us are really each other's type mentally. I'm a bit more on the conservative side, don't sleep around, prefer long term relationships, quieter; and he's the popular guy, NEVER gets into relationships, dates around a lot, party guy. Although, I have been attracted to him since we met, he's model material, completely 'straight-acting', but I always knew not to even go there, so I didn't think of him as anything more than a friend. Well the other night at a friends house, we were all outside and he takes me to the side and tells me that he's fallen for me - that he wants to try to have a relationship with me. Honestly over the past few months I have been feeling something more toward him. I know that this isn't some game he's playing, cause it's not his MO when he tries to get with a guy, and friends say that he's never said anything like that before, and he's always been proud of his non-relationship stance. I basically told him to let me think about it, but I haven't been able to come up with anything. He's always been kind of a player, and we have nothing in common. Should I even try to see where things go with him? Link to comment
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