lust4life Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 I don't know if this is a break up or not, all I know is that this is torture. He says he loves me & always will. That if I ever need someone to talk to he'll be there...etc. But, he can't focus on a serious relationship right now, he says. He needs to focus on finding himself, going to school, working, and surviving. He tells me his priorities have changed, the most important things to him now are getting an education, working 24/7, and surviving. There is no mention of us, or even me. He says we've gotta focus on ourselves & we can't have a serious relationship right now, that it's not fair to ask that of him right now. And yet, when I move back home, he wants to keep a long distance "casual" relationship. To me it's him wanting both a great relationship from me with no effort from him. And he says I'm the one who wants to end it. 2 years, we move away from home, into the same house together, and he flips a switch & decides now everything has to be about him. I know I haven't been the easiest person to deal with, as I've been severely homesick...but I've been doing well lately, I've been trying so hard.. And him, all his efforts have been towards him. This isn't who he was. I hardly even know him now. How could he? What do I do now? Link to comment
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