HoTung Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 My friend bumped into my ex yesterday at the gym but he didn;t tell me. His gf bought it up. I didnt ask my friend about it either. was fine about it last night, but this morning felt crap. It shouldn;t bother me anymore but it still does. I know i shouldn't care but why does it still affect me? Why didn't my friend tell me? Should he have told me? I know he doens't need to tell me. I am sure the conversation wasn;t about me. But i still care about my ex and guess would like to know what he is up to but then again i am scared of getting hurt. what if he is dating someone else? its inevitable its going to happen and that maybe why my friend didn;t tell me. u do wonder whether the ex asked how i was? and if he didn;t - that would make me feel awful as well. All these probabilities running through my head ...arghhhh My friend's gf asked me if i wanted to know if he was dating and the answer is I am not sure - she said it might help u move on. She said she wasn;t there when they bumped into each other. she may know she may not - but i think likely not Link to comment
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