johnman1989 Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 So it all started last summer at the pool, we were both lifeguards and I just wanted to get to know her. She went to school in chicago, I used to live in chicago. We'd goof around a lot, she'd smile at me all flirty like. Eventually she was bringing me lunch to work, we did lessons together every morning and worked late. So we bonded, but we never touched. I didn't even hug her when I headed off for south carolina for school. I felt bad. But the night before we broke into the pool and my manager threw a party for me. One of my co-workers was spreading around that a liked her, since I was kinda talking to her a bit. I made her laugh a lot. Kinda left on an ok note... We talked on facebook over the school year, mostly just asking whats up and making fun of each other. She'd make fun of me cuz I go to a military school, (I am going to be an army officer, she is switching to KU, trying to become an art teacher) telling me to do push ups and stuff. This summer she's the assistant manager (took the spot I wanted because I thought I wasn't going to be working there, doing an internship or something), and the first day she was having me help her and everything. But it's not the same, all of her friends (except the manager) left for other jobs, so it's her and me. The first week went well we joked around a lot, not anything flirty, just fun. THen she went to california for a week, and came back and we kinda had to start over, but it went faster than the first week. Now, one of my co-workers who could pretty much get any girl (short, talk-it-up, flirty, jacked up, italian) takes notice of her. At first he didn't really talk to her, but after a few days he noticed how much fun she was having with me, he decided to say hello. Now at this point him and I are becoming better friends cuz I burned this rap cd which he loved. Next day he starts touching her, which I thought was uncalled for, but she didn't do much about it, she kinda liked it. And she doesn't like my music, so things start going downhill. 4th of july coming up, I help her plan, she starts getting a little closer to the italian and I am planning costumes to be funny as usual. 4th of july, I come in with a new cd, we jam while cleaning the pool, I am wearing camo to be patriotic and funny. She thinks its funny. My italian friend, decides we need to start gettin tipsy, so I change into my lifeguard gear. A little later I am running around with the flag, in a uncle sam hat and beard, acting a fool. He is messing with me as well, eventually I get out of and and sit myself down for a break. He takes the raines and she doesn't want to be there working. Then they start talking more, she thinks he's really funny. Now it's all the sudden very awkward between us, and she's just hanging out with him. I guess he can hold his liquor better. SO now today, she just talks to him and I have to win her back... I know this sounds retarded, but I guess I just wanna be good friends with her any tips? I would really appreciate it. Link to comment
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