scared and alone Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 You couldn't even be the the same room as that person? let alone speak to them? or maybe i'm just insane? Link to comment
Landon7 Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 im sure everyone has had in some form. it usually doesnt work out too well because the attraction is too strong on your part and you wont be able to be your self around her. chances are you will fail. i suggest you let it go. either that or find things about that person that you dislike and that will level the playing field in your mind. Link to comment
civilservant Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 Oh yes. Its the purest form of hell. Especially if you later hook up with them, as you are already at a deeper emotional state because of the previous crush. Link to comment
MattW Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 Haha, when I was a kid, there was this girl I went to grade school with that I was totally in love with for about six or seven years. I was so shy about it, though, that I tended to avoid her, and come off as "shy". Although, it's interesting to note, I've recently come back in touch with her, and if I play my cards right (I'm not like I was in grade school anymore), her and I just might get together. Link to comment
crosstownTraffic Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 Actually yes! I had a lover, whom I just thought was so so attractive, I was about tongue-tied when I first met him. Luckily he also found me attractive and we ended dating for 2 and a half years! We actually had alot in common, but that first initial meeting.. oh.. talk about butterflies.. so it can be sucessful.... It's just nerves.. it means you are really really crazy about the guy. Why is that such a bad thing??? Hmmmm? Link to comment
chocolates Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 For some reason i was just thinking about my highschool crush in the car. It was 1987, Bananarama and the song "Venus" at the highschool dance, and he danced with this other chick instead of me. I can still remember the pain!! Oh and we had one of the classrooms set up as a drink/ snack area, and we were rostered on. When it was my turn and he came in to buy a drink, I could barely breathe and nearly had to run out of the room. Fastforward 20 years later, March 2008, i go back to my hometown and its the worst day ever for me- putting my parents house on the market (they died last year) and had just had this $hitfight with my sister. I go to the butchers for this kilo of beef or whatever, and there he is!!!!!!!!!!!!! He says "hello (insert my name here)" And he starts being very animated with the guy behind the counter. He used to show off in front of me at school like this. And all of a sudden. I was transported back to 1987, the same excitement............ And mannn ohhh mannnnn even hotter than he was in 1987.................... Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 yea, and they treated me like dirt but yet they will flirt with me and other girls. So I just say he isn't worth it. Link to comment
chocolates Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 You couldn't even be the the same room as that person? let alone speak to them? or maybe i'm just insane? i say yes its completely normal, just enjoy it. Maybe try and ride thru and attempt to speak to him. Link to comment
scared and alone Posted July 7, 2008 Author Share Posted July 7, 2008 well, hes in a band ( a popular band), so I guess it doesnt matter. heh. Link to comment
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