Im so damn confused, what should I do?

[ioloei]

Alright, so I asked this girl at my school out on a date last thursday and she said yes, but she didnt know if she could make it because she didnt have any money. She seemed like she genuinely wanted to go. Ive always noticed her like looking at me and then looking away and laughing at my jokes and all the usual signs, a mutual friend also told me that she liked me and that were perfect for each other.

 

Anyways, come thursday night she text me saying that she had no money and couldnt go, but asked if I wanted to do something over the weekend when she would have money. In school the next day she seemed to keep avoiding me, note that she is a shy person anyway. This morning (saturday) I text her asking when she was free this weekend, its been a few hours and she hasnt text back. So yeah im really confused as to what to do.

 

Am I being too forward?

Has she lost interest because she knows I like her aswell?

 

Thanks for reading.

[anon_a_mouse]

It's not too cool to over pester someone to see if they're free or not - but you ain't done that yet.... you can only wait to see what response you get...... it doesn't sound like you've shown over interest...... and the seemed avoiding at school may have been down to be her being embarrassed or busy - you just don't know the circumstances - so best not to speculate...if if you do speculate - just pretend that she was busy - spin the situation to be positive..but be cool about it whatever - its not attractive to show that you're worried about small things. good luck

[ioloei]

It's not too cool to over pester someone to see if they're free or not - but you ain't done that yet.... you can only wait to see what response you get...... it doesn't sound like you've shown over interest...... and the seemed avoiding at school may have been down to be her being embarrassed or busy - you just don't know the circumstances - so best not to speculate...if if you do speculate - just pretend that she was busy - spin the situation to be positive..but be cool about it whatever - its not attractive to show that you're worried about small things. good luck

 

Thanks, that made me feel a little better.

[Yates33]

Thanks, that made me feel a little better.

 

Also, it could be that she still does not have any money and is trying to find a way. You sound young and in highschool (?) ... maybe her parents haven't given her, her "allowance" yet. If she doesn't answer back, wait until Monday when you see her and joke about the situation. Ask her out again, but this time offer the date. It's proper etiquette for the man to pay, especially on a first date. I understand your young and still in school, so in your situation it doesn't always have to be this way, but at least for the first date. Goodluck.

[ghost69]

just to let you know, this was a really big weekend. i had friends go out of town, friends do family stuff, friends on the other side of town partying, etc. it was a mess. so many crazy things happening. so, don't stress. hit her up again. ask her if she had a good weekend.