Not sure if I did the right thing

[Karmageddon]

Ok, so I ended my relationship w. my b/f of a year and a half b/c he started treating me really really poorly for the past 3 months. I did this on June 30th & ended up getting a text message from him last night at 2am. Im thinking drunk texting?? Anyway he asks if I am OK and then goes on to tell me how much he misses our friendship & my support. Then it starts to say something else about me and is cut off as the length of the text is to long.

 

I will say this is a pretty typical pattern. He would ignore me for days then out of the blue I would get an "I love you" or something of that nature after I was sure he was gone for good & start the whole rollercoaster all over again. He did this once a month for the past three months till I shut it down & broke it off.

 

So I sent back a reply saying "your message cut off at the end, but I am going day by day and i will be fine. Its to bad it had to come to this but I cannot allow myself to be treated this way. But its your choice & im sure you have your reasons. I love you and wish nothing but the best for you and your daughter." Now of course, I am wondering if I should have just ignored the whole thing since it is obviously part of a pattern, but I also wanted to remain consistent with my resolve. So any input into this would be great, and once again thanks to everyone, you have been a great strength to me.

[greensleeves]

I don't think there's anything wrong with what you texted to him, it was very clear and to the point. Now you've said everything that needs to be said so if he continues texting or contacting you I'd ignore him.

[lovemycoffee41]

Fabulous response to his too long text. And I agree, don't respond to anymore of his 2am ramblings. Good for you for staying so strong!