laura_mae Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 My husband and I had been together only a year and a half before he cheated on me. I was neglecting him sexually (by the way, I was 5 months pregnant... the first trimester in pregnancy is NOT when you want to be having sex of any kind) so I left him and came back home. Recently, my husband has expressed that he would like to stay together and work things out.... this is after he confesses that after I left, he proceded to get into a deep relationship with this other woman. He says that their romantic relationship is over, but that she is a great friend. Every time I think about it, it makes me sick. I want to stay together and try to make it work, not only becuase I believe strongly in saving our marriage and keeping our vows, but also for our son who will be born in 2 months. I just can't get past this other girl in his life!! I'm so confused. Every time I express to him my feelings he just gets mad. He finally said that he's not going to discuss it any more. I'm not sure if this is something I should just let slide and hand it over to God (I am a christian and have always turned to God in times of trial) and hope that he will work a miracle on my husband, or if this is something that I need to say is a deal breaker. Stop talking to her, or leave me. Help!!! Link to comment
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