wannabeboosted Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 Well I am having another tough day.. its the 4th of july... my fam is out of town and I have no one to do anything with... I miss her alot and cant help but wonder if she is even thinking about me. I want to text her happy 4th or something but know its probably too soon... What do you all think Link to comment
deang Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 it's way too soon...what's it been a few days since last contact? Read Superdave's NC peptalk this is a guy who's been there and done it. No matter how you much you want to just know that you will do more damage to yourself instead of feeling better you will extend the time you feel worse. This isn't easy but realize time away lets YOU HEAL and lets her let go of negative feelings towards you....win win. Link to comment
wannabeboosted Posted July 4, 2008 Author Share Posted July 4, 2008 it's way too soon...what's it been a few days since last contact? Read Superdave's NC peptalk this is a guy who's been there and done it. No matter how you much you want to just know that you will do more damage to yourself instead of feeling better you will extend the time you feel worse. This isn't easy but realize time away lets YOU HEAL and lets her let go of negative feelings towards you....win win. thanks man... thats just what I needed... Link to comment
RedWingsFan Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 Just tell yourself the 4th is no different than the 3rd or 5th. Christmas, Thanksgiving, and (possibly) Easter are the most important holidays you should be concerned with. I did nothing last 4th of July and I will be doing minimal today. So you'll miss out on some colors in the sky. Oh well. Link to comment
wannabeboosted Posted July 4, 2008 Author Share Posted July 4, 2008 Just tell yourself the 4th is no different than the 3rd or 5th. Christmas, Thanksgiving, and (possibly) Easter are the most important holidays you should be concerned with. I did nothing last 4th of July and I will be doing minimal today. So you'll miss out on some colors in the sky. Oh well. Its not really that its the 4th... more of that I miss her alot... and keep wondering if she is thinking about me Link to comment
Gratsy Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 The only reason you want to text her is because no one is around to distract you. Go find something fun to do, instantly...force yourself to be happy. Go do something you really enjoy...fireworks, books, exercize, see The Hulk...something. Don't stay at home and think these things...the feelings won't go away but get away from the urge to text her. Link to comment
wannabeboosted Posted July 5, 2008 Author Share Posted July 5, 2008 Its not the urge to text her I wont... its more of I want to know if she thinks about me or what if anything I mean to her... Link to comment
feelinblu Posted July 5, 2008 Share Posted July 5, 2008 Its not the urge to text her I wont... its more of I want to know if she thinks about me or what if anything I mean to her... I'm sure she's thought of you tonight. I'm sure she thinks of you every day. Hang in there, this day has been a difficult one for a lot of us. For some, it's just another difficult day. And for some others, this day is especially difficult because it is special to us. The 4th of July has always been my favorite holiday. I watched some fireworks, and they made me sad this year because I wasn't next to him....... it stinks, but luckily tomorrow's a new day! Link to comment
wannabeboosted Posted July 6, 2008 Author Share Posted July 6, 2008 I'm sure she's thought of you tonight. I'm sure she thinks of you every day. Hang in there, this day has been a difficult one for a lot of us. For some, it's just another difficult day. And for some others, this day is especially difficult because it is special to us. The 4th of July has always been my favorite holiday. I watched some fireworks, and they made me sad this year because I wasn't next to him....... it stinks, but luckily tomorrow's a new day! Thanks blu thats what I needed to hear... Yeah it was extra sad but I got way * * * * ed up and ended up making out with my buddys ex gf... whoops... now she wants to hang out and * * * * ... I was * * * * ed up and dont want this to turn into anything I mean its nice to get out in the sea again... but I am still so in love and will always be so in love with my ex fiance Link to comment
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