He cant make up his mind!!

[Buttercup21]

Since I was 18 i have been seeing a guy 6 years older than me but Iv always felt it was me clinging to him and Yes I chased him. Back then It was just plain fun.. for year or two i dont think i loved him I got a buzz out chasing him and meeting a guy older than me. Then we grew closer and talked every day, as usual he could never give me a definite answer but eventually when he thought i was seeing sum1 else he broke down told me he loved me and we went out for a year! We get on very well and there is a spark there even he says that, we have loads in common bar 1 thing i know i want him and he just wants me 1 minute and changes his mind the next. We just spoke there and when i heard the words AGAIN " i dont want anyone, i dont know what i want, im grand on my own" i just dont know what to do! I love him but im too there for him. I told him back to that, i cant put up with this anymore, that im not a puppet on a string and its unfair that he treats me like that. I want to be so tough with him because hes that kinda fella. If you are there for him hel take advantage if you play him at his own game hel beg u to come back. I dont want to move on so dont give me that advice, i really want ye all to help play it mean and keep him keen. I think its time for the NO CONTACT challenge but have ye any other tips. He really is worth it, hes not as bad as i make out him to be, he lovely shy funny sound guy just he has me round his little finger!

[redhearts]

There is always truly better.

[Gratsy]

THERE IS A LOT BETTER OUT THERE. Give up on this guy, give up! Have you ever seen that movie with Robert Redford? There are some men who will refuse to fall in love...they are like animals...they want sex, they want affection, they don't want any attachments...they're selfish and they WILL NEVER come around. Save yourself the heartache and cut him off, do not contact him in any way, and MOVE ON before your youth goes away.